Saturday, May 31, 2025

A Clarion Call from Mississippi: Forging the Future of American Policing Through Ethical Leadership and Unwavering Resilience

Flowood, Mississippi, became a crucible for transformation on May 29, 2025.

It was my profound honor to address over 500 dedicated law enforcement professionals from across the state at the Mississippi Public Safety Summit.

My charge was clear: to deliver a message on Transforming American Policing: Ethical Leadership, Morale, and Emotional Resiliency – a message forged over four decades of unwavering commitment to community and 25 years dedicated to empowering America's protectors.

This summons to Mississippi was more than an address; it was an extension of a lifelong mission, recently amplified by my privileged appointment as the NYPD Honorary Law Enforcement Motivational Speaker.

It was a convergence of dedication, experience, and an urgent call to action, underscored by a vital collaboration with The Columbia Lighthouse Project. 

In a unity of effort, we equipped attendees with customized laminated cards – tangible tools to identify risk and, crucially, prevent suicide within their ranks.

GRATITUDE: THE BEDROCK OF PARTNERSHIP

Before charting the path forward, profound gratitude is extended to the visionary government leaders of the State of Mississippi.

Their trust in me to address Mississippi’s finest during these demanding times is a responsibility I held with the utmost humility and determination.

To every law enforcement officer and first responder in Mississippi: your daily sacrifice, your unyielding dedication to protect and serve, is the very shield of our communities.

You have my deepest respect and unwavering support.

A special commendation is unequivocally deserved by Jenna Bass, Special Projects Representative for the Mississippi Department of Public Safety.

Jenna’s quintessential professionalism in orchestrating every detail of my invitation, coupled with the extraordinary hospitality extended to my wife and I, transformed a professional engagement into a deeply personal and memorable experience.

THE SENTINEL: A LEGACY OF EMPOWERMENT

For a quarter-century, my engagements with law enforcement have been chronicled in The Sentinel.

This is not merely a record; it is a living resource – a beacon for law enforcement, government leaders, and communities.

The Sentinel champions the non-negotiable power of principled leadership, vigilance and collaboration with the imperative to work in unison to empower, encourage, and ignite character.

This endeavor is intrinsically linked to my driving goal: to assist law enforcement agencies in becoming national paragons of 21st Century Policing. This is a mission consistently articulated in my articles for the National Association of Chiefs of Police over the past 16 years.

HONORING SACRIFICE: THE SOUL OF OUR NATION AND OUR PROFESSION

During my address, I felt compelled to share the hallowed experiences my wife and I encountered at the World War II American military cemeteries in Italy in 2023.

We stood on that sacred ground not as tourists, but as pilgrims, honoring those who paid the ultimate price for freedom.

This profound respect for our military, this reverence for lives laid down in service to liberty, is not merely a sentiment – it is an indisputable pillar for the reawakening of our nation and a cornerstone of the Nine Principles of American Policing.

This solemn honor extends equally to our fallen law enforcement heroes, who made the ultimate sacrifice protecting our communities.

From Bove journal, reflecting on the Florence American WWII Cemetery:

“On these sacred grounds lie 4,393 Americans... a large sculptured figure titled ‘The Spirit of Peace’ watches over tablets bearing 1,409 names, missing in action. Walking these hallowed grounds, we felt mystically connected to these sacred souls, a deeper appreciation of America, and profoundly aware of the price of freedom.”

 And from the Sicily-Rome American Cemetery:

“Here in Nettuno is the sacred burial ground of 7,858 Americans... 3,095 more names, missing in action, lost or buried at sea, are engraved in stone within the chapel. These visitations were enriching spiritual experiences, forever engraved into our souls.”

These experiences are not just memories; they are fuel. They ignite our resolve to serve with the same unwavering commitment.

FROM GLOBAL INSIGHTS TO URGENT ACTION: A CALL UNHEEDED IS A CRISIS INVITED

My journey, spanning time in China and suicide prevention work with law enforcement in California, culminated in a pivotal moment.

Upon returning to New Jersey after nine months abroad, a call from former NYPD Commissioner Thomas G. Donlon set in motion an initiative built on the unshakeable pillars of ethical leadership, morale, emotional resiliency, and suicide prevention.

This led to my development of an unprecedented initiative for the NYPD, and after rigorous vetting, to my appointment as the NYPD Honorary Law Enforcement Motivational Speaker.

The urgency of this mission was seared into my conscience while in California on November 7, 2023. There was due to a headline that pierced the soul: “Four current and former L.A. Sheriff’s Department employees died by suicide in a 24-hour span.”

Sheriff Robert Luna's anguished plea for his personnel to check on one another echoed the silent crisis gripping too many departments. "We are stunned," he stated, "it has sent shock waves of emotions throughout the department."

Compelled to act, I made one phone call.

ONE PHONE CALL: THE CATALYST FOR CHANGE

As every officer knows, sometimes moving mountains begins with a single, decisive act.

I called the U.S. Marshal of the SDNY, Ralph Sozio. He, in turn, made one call to the right person – the NYPD liaison in California, Detective John Lunt.

That one call ignited a chain reaction, culminating in a presentation to representatives from 18 law enforcement agencies across California.

Let this be a stark reminder: crisis demands communication.

Pick up the phone. Make the call with confidence, resolve, and unyielding commitment.

One call can transform, and indeed save, lives. This imperative spurred my article for the National Association of Chiefs of Police: "Police Suicides: Awareness, Compassion, Action."

OPERATION RESILIENCY: A LIFELINE FOR OUR PROTECTORS

Seven months ago, this conviction birthed NYPD /FDNY Operation Resiliency: Ethical Leadership, Morale, Emotional Resiliency, Suicide Prevention.

This initiative has seen me engage with peer support at NYPD and FDNY academies, the MTAPD, NYPD promotion classes, NYPD fraternal organizations, numerous Police Self Support Group presentations and events, firehouses, roll calls, and suicide prevention training. At times, I have had the honor to work in partnership with Dr. Stephen Wacshal of ConQueR Suicide.

Every interaction, every follow-up chat, reinforces the critical need for this work.

THE WOUNDED HEALER, THE ETHICAL PROTECTOR: EMBRACING OUR SHARED HUMANITY

In Mississippi, as in all my engagements, I shared the transformative wisdom of Henri Nouwen’s "The Wounded Healer."

“When our wounds cease to be a source of shame, and become a source of healing, we have become wounded healers.”

“Nobody escapes being wounded. We are all wounded people.”

“Our service will not be perceived as authentic, unless it comes from a heart wounded by the suffering we encounter in others.”

“The main question is not ‘How can we hide our wounds?’ but ‘How can we put our woundedness in the service of others?’”

For law enforcement, this readily translates to The Ethical Protector.

I challenged attendees to also embrace their identity as The Wounded Protector.

Each officer possesses a unique moral compass, a DNA hardwired to shield the innocent, the vulnerable, the helpless. This intrinsic drive means that wherever a Wounded Protector stands as safety and security will  prevail.

THE WOUNDED PROTECTOR: A SANCTUARY FOR THE BROKENHEARTED

Consider the young woman who approached me, her soul crying out: "I feel so broken inside... invisible... if only someone would just acknowledge me, ask if I am OK."

The brokenhearted are among us – in our families, communities, and within our departments.

We must respond with eyes and hearts wide open, with unwavering compassion and empathy.

Consider Clare, an 86-year-old woman, whom I am privileged to administer the Holy Eucharist to at a community senior residence home. Clare shared the lifelong shadow cast by her father’s suicide – NYPD Detective James Francis Carberry, lost in 1938.

Clare was ten, the first to find him. Her plea, relayed through me, is a sacred trust:

“You have the power through your encounters, observation skills, empathy, compassion, and sixth-sense to respond to the warning signs of brokenness. Do so with kindness, dignity, and affirmation – you can change, and save lives.”

THE HEALING POWER OF AFFIRMATION: IGNITING HOPE

For 45 years, I have championed the teachings of psychiatrist Dr. Conrad Baars. His core message:

Affirmation is a catalyst that ignites hope into the human soul. It recognizes, appreciates, and encourages.

As I often state, “The challenges of life can deprive individuals of unconditional love and appreciation. 

Yet, the affirmative person, the wounded healer, and for us today, the wounded protector, inspires healing of the body, mind, spirit, and emotions.”

A SACRED DUTY: THE SENTINEL’S CREED

Inspired by the honor guard at the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier, I urged the attendees to adopt the spirit of the Sentinel’s Creed:

“My dedication to this sacred duty is total and wholehearted. In the responsibility bestowed upon me, never will I falter. And with dignity and perseverance my standard will remain perfection.”

Let this creed resonate in your noble, necessary, and admirable work. Know that you are appreciated and admired.

FINAL REFLECTION: THE LIBERATION MONUMENT – OUR ENDURING SYMBOL

Near Ellis Island and the Statue of Liberty stands Nathan Rapaport’s Liberation Monument – an American soldier carrying a concentration camp survivor.

This powerful image, a testament to compassion, character, and courage, is one I frequently share. It is my fervent hope to inspire law enforcement to connect with America’s legacy of heroism and to uphold that standard in their own privileged service.

Ethical leadership is the bedrock. 

Our public servants are a national treasure. Our collective, unwavering commitment to support them will forge America's rightful destiny as a beacon of moral leadership for the world.

NOTE WELL: A LIFESAVING COLLABORATION

My recent collaboration with the Columbia Lighthouse Project (CLP) has been pivotal.

Utilizing their emotional resiliency and suicide prevention app, and distributing their awareness cards at the Mississippi Summit and to NYPD personnel, has already borne fruit.

The NYPD Health and Wellness section, recognizing the immense value of partnering with CLP, will make the CLP app available department-wide. 

This vital technology, as documented in my "Principles of American Policing" (NACOP Cover Story, Summer 2015), is essential. Principle Number Five states:

“Police deserve the latest and most effective technology to protect themselves and the public."

This collaboration is that principle in action, safeguarding the emotional resiliency of law enforcement across America.

ABOUT VINCENT 

Vincent J. Bove stands as a nationally acclaimed authority and transformative voice in ethical leadership, violence prevention, building law enforcement morale, ethical resiliency, and suicide prevention.

A sought-after national speaker, prolific author, and trusted confidant, Bove’s profound insights and actionable strategies have shaped critical discourse and fortified institutions across America.

A Prolific and Award-Winning Author:

Bove's intellectual contributions are vast, with over 325 published articles and four influential books addressing the nation's most pressing challenges in ethical leadership, violence prevention, public safety, and resiliency. Bove has an additional 500 works posted in his online newsletter titled The Sentinel.

His fourth book, Reawakening America©, earned distinction as a finalist for an ASIS International Book of the Year award, underscoring its national significance.

The seminal Listen to Their Cries© was notably sponsored by West Point for all attendees from colleges nationwide at his National Conference on Ethics in America (NCEA) presentation, a testament to its critical message. 

Bove's work has been esteemed by countless law enforcement agencies, educational institutions, and community leaders.

Esteemed by America's Premier Law Enforcement Agencies:

Recognized for his unwavering commitment, Vincent was appointed Honorary Law Enforcement Motivational Speaker by the NYPD. He is a pivotal force in championing principled leadership, bolstering morale, fostering emotional resilience, and spearheading suicide prevention initiatives at department events and roll calls.

His FBI Director's Community Leadership Award underscores his profound impact. Bove has served as a recurrent keynote speaker at prestigious FBI venues, delivering powerful addresses on leadership in times of crisis, corruption, and national transformation to their audiences at Princeton University, Fort Dix, Fort Monmouth, and FBI Field Offices.

Spearheading National Safety and Leadership Initiatives:

Bove’s influence extends to safeguarding major urban centers. He developed and delivered the critical keynote series, Leadership Principles: Crisis Planning, Community Partnerships, Violence Prevention©, to fortify New York City.

These high-stakes sessions convened leaders from the NYPD, FDNY, FBI, corporate security directors, and property managers at iconic venues including:

  • The Museum of Modern Art (MoMA)
  • The New York Stock Exchange
  • Rockefeller University
  • The Union Club of New York
  • Columbia University and Fordham University

Innovator in Modern Policing and Community Safety:

A testament to his proactive approach, Bove developed the groundbreaking program 21st Century Policing: America’s Ethical Protector©. 

This certification program, launched through a major conference in partnership with the Bergen County Prosecutor’s Office (BCPO), Bergen County Police Chiefs Association (BCPCA), and Bergen County Sheriff's Office (BCSO), saw Bove direct the event and deliver its galvanizing keynote to a cross-section of local, county, and state police agencies.

His long-standing commitment to community safety is further evidenced by his 20-year service as liaison on violence prevention for the BCPCA.

The widespread adoption of Listen To Their Cries© at events like The Southern New Jersey Prosecutors Safe Schools Conference (a collaboration of seven prosecutors representing over 300 police departments and schools) and by the Bergen County Education Association (BCEA) for 279 schools, highlights his reach and effectiveness.

A Leading Voice and Advocate:

As a prominent author for the National Association of Chiefs of Police, Bove has penned 18 cover stories, numerous special reports, and sixty-five articles, shaping national law enforcement dialogue for 16 years. His compassion and authority led him to serve as spokesperson and author a report for a coalition of victim families from the Virginia Tech tragedy, amplifying their voices on a national stage.

Bove's expertise is also sought by America's military. He has delivered numerous impactful presentations at West Point and a U.S. Air Force leadership keynote at the Joint Base McGuire-Dix.  He has authored many published works honoring all branches of America’s armed forces.

Beyond his law enforcement and military advocacy, Bove has served as a trusted confidant to New York Yankees players from two world-champion teams.  This included a collaboration with twenty-eight Yankee players on his first book, a collection of personal letters to fans.

Endorsed at the Highest Levels:

The U.S. Senate itself has recognized Vincent J. Bove's exceptional standing:

“Vincent J. Bove is considered one of the foremost national experts on school and workplace violence prevention, specializing in facility protection, evacuations, terrorism prevention and leadership training." – U.S. Senate

 Related Bove Published Works by the National Association of Chiefs of Police:

The NYPD: Leading Through a National Crisis ©

NYPD Employee Assistance Unit: Leading Through a National Crisis ©

21st Century Policing: Issues and Response                           

21st Century American Policing Demands Ethical Leadership

Police Suicides: Awareness, Compassion, Action

Safeguarding America’s Protectors: A Community Responsibility

America’s Law Enforcement Sacrifices Demand Eternal Gratitude

Igniting 21st Century Ethical Policing: Understanding the Profession

PHOTOS:

1. Mississippi Public Safety Summit Attendees, May 29, 2025. Credit: Reawakening America LLC  (RALLC)

2. Florence American World War II Cemetery, June 2023. (RALLC)

3. Collage including Bove published work on Suicide for the NACOP. (RALLC) Illustrations on right -  Credit: Sgt. Zachary Saenz, Edinburg Police Department.

4. The Tomb of the Unknown Soldier, Bove article published by the NACOP. (Photo Credit RALLC)

5. The Liberation Monument, Jersey City, NJ. (RALLC)

6. Bove speaking at the Mississippi Public Safety Summit, May 29, 2025. (Credit Yiyi Bove for RALLC)

7. The Columbia Lighthouse Project (CLP), customized card for the Mississippi Public Safety Summit (MPSS), a collaboration of The CLP, MPSS and RALLC.

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Friday, May 23, 2025

The NYPD Police Self Support Group: To Survive and to Serve

On Thursday, May 22, 2025, my wife Lily and I were privileged to attend the NYPD Police Self Support Group Annual Awards Dinner in Howard Beach, New York.

The Police Self Support Group (PSSG) is an exclusive fraternal group of the NYPD serving the special needs of police officers with serious line-of-duty injuries, or life-threatening illnesses.

My appointment by the NYPD began seven months ago as the Honorary Law Enforcement Motivational Speaker with my first presentation to the PSSG. 

The presentation was memorialized in my article for the National Association of Chiefs of Police.

Excerpt: Principled Leadership, Morale, Resilience, Suicide Prevention ©

“On Thursday, November 14, 2024, I was the privileged guest speaker for the NYPD Medical Division at their Corona, Queens facility.

“My remarks were titled The NYPD: Leading Through a National Crisis ©.

“The favorable feedback to my remarks led to the privileged appointment by the Police Commissioner, in collaboration with numerous of his NYPD colleagues, of Honorary Law Enforcement Motivational Speaker.

“My remarks included the following:

“The challenging times for law enforcement throughout America, with alarming levels of stress, wounded morale, senseless acts of violence, and suicide.

“The NYPD is not immune to these challenges. Each of us must be catalysts of change to ignite a culture of respect, affirmation, and gratitude.

“The necessity of principled leadership, morale enhancement, emotional resilience, and suicide prevention.

“The paramount mandate of inspiring ethical protectors; personified by character, empathy, and compassion for others.

“A laser focused goal of inspiring a culture that values the physical, spiritual, and mental well-being of every member of the NYPD.

The Wounded Healer ©

My remarks continued with sharing my commentary on the wisdom from the 1979 book titled The Wounded Healer © by Henri Nouwen.

The commentary included the following excerpts (some are paraphrased):

“When our wounds cease to be a source of shame, and become a source of healing, we have become wounded healers.”

“Nobody escapes being wounded. We are all wounded people, whether physically, emotionally, mentally, or spiritually.”

“Our service will not be perceived as authentic, unless it comes from a heart wounded by the suffering we encounter in others.”

“The main question is not ‘How can we hide our wounds?’ so we don’t have to be embarrassed, but ‘How can we put our woundedness in the service of others?”

“To enter into solidarity with a suffering person does not mean that we have to talk with that person about our own suffering.  We must by sympathetic listeners, as speaking about our own pain is seldom helpful for someone who is in pain.”

“A wounded healer is someone who can listen [and empathize] to a person in pain without having to speak about his or her own wounds.”

“When we have experienced pain, we can listen with great attentiveness and compassion to another in pain without spotlighting our own wounds.”

“Mostly, it is better not to direct a suffering person’s attention to ourselves.  We have to trust that our own wounds will allow us to listen to others with our whole being.  The empathetic listening leads to healing.

“On November 14, The Police Self Support Group had the honor of meeting Vincent J. Bove who represented the Police Commissioner.

“It was truly impressive and uplifting to have someone speak to us, and chat individually before and after his presentation, who supports our program and methodology.

“Vincent’s presentation focused on the wounded healer, and he encouraged us to use our experiences to help others to heal.

“We are confident that our program can serve as a national model on police helping one another. 

We are hopeful that with individuals like Vincent in our corner, and others who support the NYPD, we will be more effective in our dedication to assist our police family, and our communities.” 

Peter Pallos, Training Coordinator (PSSG), 23 years with the group.

“It was great seeing Peter Pallos, CISM/CIT and Vincent J. Bove last night. Having practiced in the field of forensic psychology for 47 years and obtaining three masters degrees and a Columbia university PHD, I can state unequivocally that both of these men are on my short list of heroes.” 

Dr. Stephen Wakschal

FINAL REFLECTION

Inspired by the honor guard of the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier at Arlington National Cemetery in Washington D.C., I ask you to apply these words from the Sentinel’s creed, from those who guard the tomb.

This sacred place holds our heroes who died in service of America.

The message from their creed applies to each of us; in our noble, necessary, and admirable work to protect society:

“My dedication to this sacred duty is total and wholehearted. In the responsibility bestowed upon me, never will I falter.

“And with dignity and perseverance my standard will remain perfection.”

Let us continue our mission as it is honorable and necessary for our communities, and always remember that each of you is appreciated and admired.

NOTE WELL: THE LIBERATION MONUMENT

Surrounded by the significance of Ellis Island, the Statue of Liberty and the New York skyline is the Liberation Monument in Liberty View Park, Jersey City, N.J.

Designed by sculptor Nathan Rapaport, this inspirational statue depicts a World War II American soldier carrying a survivor from a concentration camp.

This image moves the soul to reflect on the values of compassion, character, and courage.

A photo of this magnificent monument is often shared with my audiences. 

It is my sincere hope to inspire them to connect with the great Americans of our history, and uphold their legacy through their privileged profession as members of the NYPD.

Leadership is pivotal for our NYPD personnel, and all our first responders. Our public servants are a national treasure.

We must be fully dedicated and committed to assisting each of them, and one another. 

This will lead to America's rightful destiny as a beacon of moral leadership for the world.

NOTE WELL:  It has been my privilege to collaborate with the Columbia Lighthouse Project (CLP)
over the last two months, and to use their emotional resiliency and suicide prevention app on my phone. 

During this time, I have also distributed their suicide awareness and prevention card to NYPD personnel. 

Recently, NYPD Health and Wellness realized the advantage of collaborating with CLP and will have the CLP suicide prevention app available to NYPD personnel. 

This imperative technology, as documented in my Principles of American Policing for the NACOP (Cover Story / Summer 2015), is essential to benefit the emotional resiliency of the NYPD, and law enforcement throughout America.

    Principle of America Policing No. Five is as follows:  

      “Police deserve the latest and most effective technology to protect themselves and the public." 

    ABOUT VINCENT

Vincent J. Bove is a national speaker, author, and confidant on issues critical to America with 325 published works.

His most recent of four books are Reawakening America © and Listen to Their Cries.© 

Bove is recipient of the FBI Director's Community Leadership Award, former confidant of players from two world-champion New York Yankee teams, and served as spokesperson for a coalition of Virginia Tech tragedy victim's families. 

In 2024, Bove was appointed Honorary Law Enforcement Motivational Speaker by the NYPD.  

In this role he addresses ethical leadership, building morale, emotional resiliency, and suicide prevention at NYPD and FDNY events, roll calls, firehouses, and in published works.

Bove has been an author for the National Association of Chiefs of Police for 16 years. He has over 60 published works, and an unprecedented 18 cover stories for their magazine.

Bove served the Bergen County Police Chiefs Association for 20 consecutive years as liaison and chairperson on policing leadership, violence prevention, and public safety issues.

He conducted Leadership Principles: Crisis Planning, Community Partnerships, Violence Prevention © keynotes to safeguard New York City at sites including:

·       Museums hosted by the Museum of Modern Art (MoMA)

·       Corporations hosted by The New York Stock Exchange

·       Hospitals hosted by Rockefeller University

·       Properties hosted by The Union Club of New York

·       Universities hosted by Columbia University, the New York Athletic Club and Fordham University.

Bove has conducted extensive leadership presentations for the NYPD, FBI, the United States Military Academy, law enforcement, educators, security professionals, and students nationwide. vincentbove.com

“We must all serve as catalysts to protect our workplaces, schools, communities, public spaces, houses of worship, and one another. 

Public safety demands leadership, vigilance, and collaboration.  

"Security and personal safety demands comprehensive enhancements, on-going training, effective response to warning signs, and building bridges with law enforcement, private security, and every member of the community.”  Vincent J Bove


NYPD Survey Excerpts on Bove PSSG Presentation:

"Bove was inspirational and encouraging.  He impacts many in a positive and therapeutic approach...this is needed at the police academy with the future members of the NYPD."

"Excellent Presentation, please continue attending our meetings, and speak at the police academy, the beginning of the officers careers - 100% on today's presentation, truly excellent."

"Bove did an amazing job with everything - leadership, morale, emotional health and suicide prevention needed in today's NYPD - keep doing what your doing as the NYPD needs this department wide."

"Keep getting the message out, and especially in the high-crime precincts."

"This message is needed in all of the NYPD commands, 100 % on point."

"The speaker did a great job connecting with us when morale and emotional health is needed."

Related Bove Published Works by the National Association of Chiefs of Police:

The NYPD: Leading Through a National Crisis ©

NYPD Employee Assistance Unit: Leading Through a National Crisis ©

21st Century Policing: Issues and Response                           

21st Century American Policing Demands Ethical Leadership

Police Suicides: Awareness, Compassion, Action

Safeguarding America’s Protectors: A Community Responsibility

America’s Law Enforcement Sacrifices Demand Eternal Gratitude

Igniting 21st Century Ethical Policing: Understanding the Profession

PHOTOS:

1. NYPD PSSG Collage, May 22, 2025. Credit: Reawakening America LLC (RALLC)

2. NYPD PSSG Info Card. Credit: NYPD PSSG

3. The NACOP article titled The Tomb of the Unknown Soldier, Vincent J. Bove. (NACOP)

4. The Liberation Monument, Jersey City, NJ. (RALLC)

5. Principles of America Policing, Cover Story by Vincent J. Bove for the NACOP, Summer 2015, also published numerous times since 2015 in The Sentinel and NACOP articles.

6. Bove addresses NYPD TD 4 roll call, one of five roll calls on May 7, 2025. Credit: Lieutenant John Froehlich, NYPD TD 4 at Union Square Park, NYC.

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Wednesday, May 14, 2025

The NYPD TD 1: Ethical Leadership, Courage, Resiliency

On Tuesday, May 13, 2025, I was the privileged guest speaker at the NYPD TD 1.

TD 1 is located at 59th Street/Columbus Circle Subway Station just before the west side entrance to Central Park.

My visit took place in the evening after spending the day at the NYPD 32 Precinct in Harlem. 

During my time at TD 1, I had the opportunity to share remarks to two evening roll calls.

Gratitude

Captain Marion M. Cuevas, Commanding Officer of NYPD TD 1 for his leadership and graciously attending this event.  

The captain also shared heartfelt, sincere, and inspiring remarks on resiliency during the roll call. 

Captain Cuevas’s encouragement through personal experience made a positive impact on his personnel, motivating them to watch out for themselves and their NYPD colleagues.

Lieutenant Fernando Lopez of NYPD TD 1 for his collaboration organizing my roll call remarks, and his hospitality with my visit.  

His leadership exemplifies the qualities of respect, professionalism, and courtesy which are critical to 21st Century Policing.

THE SENTINEL

As with many of my law enforcement activities over the last 25 years, they are memorialized in The Sentinel.

This provides a resource for law enforcement, government leaders, and communities.

The documentation respects the importance of collaboration; and the need to work together to empower, encourage, and inspire character.

It also serves my goal of assisting law enforcement agencies to be recognized as a national model of 21st Century Policing.

These efforts are published in my numerous articles for the National Association of Chiefs of Police for the last 15 years.

My efforts have been privileged to receive a unique spotlight since my privileged appointment as the NYPD Honorary Law Enforcement Motivational Speaker seven months ago.

Honoring American Sacrifices - As memorialized in The Chief of Police

During my remarks, I took time to share experiences my wife and I had visiting both World War II American military cemeteries in Italy.

We visited these sacred grounds to honor Americans who offered the ultimate sacrifice for freedom.

Respecting our military, and reverence for those who lost their lives in service of our freedom, is an indisputable principle for the reawakening of our nation. 

It is also one of the nine Principles of American Policing.

This respect is complemented by honoring the fallen law enforcement professionals who have lost their lives protecting and serving our communities.

Reflections of the World War II American Military Cemetery visits are memorialized in the journal I maintained during our travels and are as follows:

“In the afternoon, we traveled from Florence, Italy to the Florence American WWII Cemetery, 7 ½ miles south in Impruneta to honor American hero’s from World War II.

“On these sacred grounds lie 4,393 Americans.

“There is also a large sculptured figure on site titled ‘The Spirit of Peace’ and tablets of 1,409 have their names engraved upon it as missing in action.

“While walking these hallowed grounds, we felt mystically connected to these sacred souls, a deeper appreciation of America, and profoundly aware of the price of freedom.”

July 1, 2023: Sicily-Rome American Cemetery

“Today we traveled 1.5 hours by train from Rome to the Sicily-Rome American Cemetery in the town
of Nettuno.

“We then walked 25 minutes from the station to the cemetery, morally obligated as Americans to visit both resting places for our World War II heroes.

“These visitations were enriching spiritual experiences forever engraved into our souls.

“Here in Nettuno is the sacred burial ground of 7,858 Americans. Also, in the on-site chapel an additional 3,095 names are engraved into stone. These are the missing in action, lost at sea, or buried at sea.

China, California, New Jersey

During today's visit I also shared experiences in China, and serving law enforcement in California to work on suicide prevention.

When I returned home to New Jersey after 9 months of travel to Italy, China, and California, I received a call from former NYPD Commissioner Thomas G. Donlon.

Soon after this call, my initiative, built on the pillars of ethical leadership, morale, emotional resiliency, and suicide prevention began. 

I was appointed the NYPD Honorary Law Enforcement Motivational Speaker after an extensive vetting process with many department representatives.

ETHICAL LEADERSHIP, MORALE, RESILIENCY, SUICIDE PREVENTION

While in California on November 7, 2023, there was a sobering headline that pierced my soul:

“Four current and former L.A. Sheriff’s Department employees died by suicide in a 24-hour span”

The suicide deaths, four within 24 hours, prompted a plea from Sheriff Robert Luna urging deputies to check on the well-being of their colleagues and friends.

“We are stunned to learn of these deaths, and it has sent shock waves of emotions throughout the department as we try and cope with the loss of not just one, but four beloved active and retired members of our department family,” Luna said in an emailed statement Tuesday. “During difficult times like these it’s important for personnel regardless of rank or position to check on the well-being of other colleagues and friends.”

Since I would be in California for at least another 2 months, I was compelled to act.

ONE PHONE CALL

Sometimes, as law enforcement knows, moving a mountain can begin with just one phone call, and so I called the U.S. Marshall of the SDNY.

In turn, Marshall Ralph Sozio made one phone call, to the right person, the NYPD liaison in California, and the chain of events to address the crisis began.

The NYPD liaison, Detective John Lunt, set up an initiative for my presentation to representatives from 18 law enforcement agencies from throughout California.

Before continuing, a simple reminder of how to respond to a crisis. We begin communication in a profoundly simple but meaningful way – pick up the phone, and make the call with confidence, resolve, and commitment.

Just one phone call can set into motion a chain of events that can transform lives.

Police Suicides: Awareness, Compassion, Action

Subsequently, this California initiative was followed with an article for my column for the National Association of Chiefs of Police.

The article was titled, Police Suicides: Awareness, Compassion, Action.

OPERATION RESILIENCY: BACKGROUND

Seven months ago, I developed the initiative titled NYPD /FDNY Operation Resiliency: Ethical Leadership, Morale, Emotional Resiliency, Suicide Prevention.

Since then, I have been privileged to conduct presentations including peer support at both the NYPD and FDNY academies and the MTAPD, NYPD promotion classes, fraternal organizations, firehouses, roll calls, suicide prevention training sessions with Dr. Stephen Wacshal of ConQueR Suicide, an NYPD Spiritual Retreat, and many follow up chats and communications.

THE WOUNDED HEALER

As with other recent presentations, today I shared thoughts on The Wounded Healer by Henri Nouwen.

A few thoughts of this concept:

• “When our wounds cease to be a source of shame, and become a source of healing, we have become wounded healers.”

• “Nobody escapes being wounded. We are all wounded people, whether physically, emotionally, mentally, or spiritually.”

• “Our service will not be perceived as authentic, unless it comes from a heart wounded by the suffering we encounter in others.”

• “The main question is not ‘How can we hide our wounds? so we don’t have to be embarrassed, but   How can we put our woundedness in the service of others?”

Besides thoughts on The Wounded Healer, easily transitioned to The Wounded Protector for all law enforcement, I would also like you to be empowered with another thought - The Ethical Protector.

THE ETHICAL PROTECTOR

The Ethical Protector: each of us dedicated to the noble law enforcement profession has a unique moral compass – ethical protectors.

The law enforcement DNA irrefutably has a laser focus - protecting innocent, vulnerable, helpless, and marginalized members of society.

This ethical protector moral compass is so fine-tuned, that we understand that as protectors, that wherever we are, people are safe because of our presence.

THE ETHICAL PROTECTOR: DEDICATED TO THE BROKENHEARTED

A quick thought - after one of my presentations, I was approached by a young woman who asked for my advice.

She asked, “what do I do. I feel so broken inside, a place no one can see, hopeless and most importantly invisible to others. Sometimes I feel that my soul is crying, and if only someone would just acknowledge me, ask me if I am OK – what I would do for someone to invite me to just sit with them and listen to me.”


The brokenhearted are in our families, communities, workplaces, within the NYPD – we must respond with compassion, concern, and empathy. We must have our eyes, and our hearts wide open.

Recently, during one of my volunteer visits to senior residence homes, (where I am privileged to visit about 40 seniors, at times on their death beds, to administer the Eucharist) an 86-year-old woman told me another story.

She shared the story of her father, NYPD Detective James Francis Carberry, who died by suicide in 1938.

Clare told me she was a 10-year-old girl, and the first one to find her father after his death by suicide.

The memory of this tragedy has remained with Claire throughout her life.

Clare asked me to share that she did not have the knowledge as a child to see, the signs.

She asked me to share - you have the power through your encounters, observation skills, empathy, compassion, and sixth-sense to respond to the warning signs of brokenness.

Do so with kindness, dignity, and affirmation – you can change, and save lives.

DR. CONRAD BAARS: THE HEALING POWER OF AFFIRMATION

During the last 45 years, I have been a practitioner of the famous psychiatrist Dr. Conrad Baars.

His vast collection of books can be summed up as follows:

Affirmation has a power that can transform lives.  It is a catalyst that ignites hope into the souls of human beings. Affirmation recognizes, appreciates, and encourages the qualities of others.


“The challenges of life can deprive individuals of the basic human need of unconditional love and appreciation. Yet, the affirmative person, the wounded healer, and for us today, the wounded protector, inspires healing of the body, mind, spirit, and emotions.”    Vincent J. Bove

A REFLECTION

Inspired by the honor guard of the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier at Arlington National Cemetery in Washington D.C., I ask you to apply these words from the Sentinel’s creed, from those who guard the tomb.

This sacred place holds our heroes who died in service of America.

The message from their creed applies to each of us; in our noble, necessary, and admirable work to protect society:


“My dedication to this sacred duty is total and wholehearted. In the responsibility bestowed upon me, never will I falter.

“And with dignity and perseverance my standard will remain perfection.”

Let us continue our mission as it is honorable and necessary for our communities, and always remember that each of you is appreciated and admired.

FINAL REFLECTION: THE LIBERATION MONUMENT

Surrounded by the significance of Ellis Island, the Statue of Liberty and the New York skyline is the Liberation Monument in Liberty View Park, Jersey City, N.J.

Designed by sculptor Nathan Rapaport, this inspirational statue depicts a World War II American soldier carrying a survivor from a concentration camp.

This image moves the soul to reflect on the values of compassion, character, and courage.

A photo of this magnificent monument is often shared with my audiences. 

It is my sincere hope to inspire them to connect with the great Americans of our history, and uphold their legacy through their privileged profession as members of the NYPD.

Leadership is pivotal for our NYPD personnel, and all our first responders. 

Our public servants are a national treasure. We must be fully dedicated and committed to assisting each of them, and one another. 

This will lead to America's rightful destiny as a beacon of moral leadership for the world.

NOTE WELL:  It has been my privilege to collaborate with the Columbia Lighthouse Project (CLP) over the last two months, and to use their emotional resiliency and suicide prevention app on my phone. 

During this time, I have also distributed their suicide awareness and prevention card to NYPD personnel. 

Recently, NYPD Health and Wellness realized the advantage of collaborating with CLP and will have the CLP suicide prevention app available to NYPD personnel. 

This imperative technology as documented in my Principles of American Policing for the NACOP (Cover Story / Summer 2015) is essential to benefit the emotional resiliency of the NYPD, and law enforcement throughout America.

    Principle of America Policing No. Five is as follows:  

      “Police deserve the latest and most effective technology to protect themselves and the public." 

    ABOUT VINCENT

Vincent J. Bove is a national speaker, author, and confidant on issues critical to America with 325 published works.

His most recent of four books are Reawakening America © and Listen to Their Cries.© 

Bove is recipient of the FBI Director's Community Leadership Award, former confidant of players from two world-champion New York Yankee teams, and served as spokesperson for a coalition of Virginia Tech tragedy victim's families. 

In 2024, Bove was appointed Honorary Law Enforcement Motivational Speaker by the NYPD.  

In this role he addresses ethical leadership, building morale, emotional resiliency, and suicide prevention at NYPD and FDNY events, roll calls, firehouses, and in published works.

Bove has been an author for the National Association of Chiefs of Police for 15 years. He has over 60 published works, and an unprecedented 18 cover stories for their magazine.

Bove served the Bergen County Police Chiefs Association for 20 consecutive years as liaison and chairperson on policing leadership, violence prevention, and public safety issues.

He conducted Leadership Principles: Crisis Planning, Community Partnerships, Violence Prevention © keynotes to safeguard New York City at sites including:

·       Museums hosted by the Museum of Modern Art (MoMA)

·       Corporations hosted by The New York Stock Exchange

·       Hospitals hosted by Rockefeller University

·       Properties hosted by The Union Club of New York

·       Universities hosted by Columbia University, the New York Athletic Club and Fordham University.

Bove has conducted extensive leadership presentations for the NYPD, FBI, the United States Military Academy, law enforcement, educators, security professionals, and students nationwide. vincentbove.com

“We must all serve as catalysts to protect our workplaces, schools, communities, public spaces, houses of worship, and one another. 

“Public safety demands leadership, vigilance, and collaboration.  

"Security and personal safety demands comprehensive enhancements, on-going training, effective response to warning signs, and building bridges with law enforcement, private security, and every member of the community.”  Vincent J Bove

Related Bove Published Works by the National Association of Chiefs of Police:

The NYPD: Leading Through a National Crisis ©

NYPD Employee Assistance Unit: Leading Through a National Crisis ©

21st Century Policing: Issues and Response                           

21st Century American Policing Demands Ethical Leadership

Police Suicides: Awareness, Compassion, Action

Safeguarding America’s Protectors: A Community Responsibility

America’s Law Enforcement Sacrifices Demand Eternal Gratitude

Igniting 21st Century Ethical Policing: Understanding the Profession

PHOTOS:

1. NYPD TD 1, May 13, 2025. Reawakening America LLC (RALLC)

2. NYPD TD 1, May 13, 2025. Reawakening America LLC (RALLC)

3. Florence American Military Cemetery, June 21, 2023. Reawakening America LLC (RALLC)

4. Sicily Rome American Cemetery, July 1, 2023. (RALLC)

5. Illustration Credit: Sgt. Zachary Saenz, Edinburg Police Department.

6. The Columbia Lighthouse Project in collaboration with Reawakening America LLC.

7. The NACOP article titled The Tomb of the Unknown Soldier, Vincent J. Bove. (NACOP)

8. The Liberation Monument, Jersey City, NJ. (RALLC)

9. Principles of America Policing, Cover Story by Vincent J. Bove for the NACOP, Summer 2015, also published numerous times since 2015 in The Sentinel and NACOP articles.

10. Vincent J. Bove, NYPD TD 4 roll call remarks, May 7, 2025. (RALLC)

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