Thursday, May 08, 2025

The NYPD Transit District Four: Ethical Leadership, Vigilance, Resiliency

On Wednesday, May 7, 2025, I was privileged to share remarks to the NYPD Transit District Four in Manhattan.

The Transit District Four Command is located at Union Square Subway Station at 14th Street / Union Square West.   

My remarks to five different roll calls were titled The NYPD Transit District Four: Ethical Leadership, Vigilance, Resiliency.

Gratitude

Emmanuel Cabreja Captain / Commanding Officer for the NYPD Transit District Four for his admirable leadership to his personnel, and his kind invitation for me to conduct this initiative  

Joshua A. Lopez, Captain / Executive Officer of the NYPD Transit District Four for his dedication to his personnel, and support of this initiative.

John Froehlich, Lieutenant / Transit District Four his exemplary leadership and professionalism with coordinating all facets of the  initiative which enabled me to address nearly 100 personnel during roll call remarks, and with personal encounters during my day at the command.

THE SENTINEL

As with many of my law enforcement activities over the last 25 years, they are memorialized in The Sentinel.

This provides a resource for law enforcement, government leaders, and communities.

The documentation respects the importance of collaboration; and the need to work together to empower, encourage, and inspire character.

It also serves my goal of assisting law enforcement agencies to be recognized as a national model of 21st Century Policing. 

These efforts are published in my numerous articles for the National Association of Chiefs of Police for the last 15 years.

My efforts have been privileged to receive a unique spotlight since my privileged appointment as the NYPD Honorary Law Enforcement Motivational Speaker six months ago.

Honoring American Sacrifices - As memorialized in The Chief of Police

During my remarks today, I took time to share experiences my wife and I had visiting both World War II American military cemeteries in Italy.

We visited these sacred grounds to honor Americans who offered the ultimate sacrifice for freedom.

Respecting our military, and reverence for those who lost their lives in service of our freedom, is an indisputable principle for the reawakening of our nation.  

It is also one of the nine Principles of American Policing.

This respect is complemented by honoring the fallen law enforcement professionals who have lost their lives protecting and serving our communities.

Reflections of the World War II American Military Cemetery visits are memorialized in the journal I maintained during our travels and are as follows:

“In the afternoon, we traveled from Florence, Italy to the Florence American WWII Cemetery, 7 ½ miles south in Impruneta to honor American hero’s from World War II.

“On these sacred grounds lie 4,393 Americans.

“There is also a large sculptured figure on site titled ‘The Spirit of Peace’ and tablets of 1,409 have their names engraved upon it as missing in action.

“While walking these hallowed grounds, we felt mystically connected to these sacred souls, a deeper appreciation of America, and profoundly aware of the price of freedom.”

July 1, 2023: Sicily-Rome American Cemetery



“Today we traveled 1.5 hours by train from Rome to the Sicily-Rome American Cemetery in the town of Nettuno.

“We then walked 25 minutes from the station to the cemetery, morally obligated as Americans to visit both resting places for our World War II heroes.

“These visitations were enriching spiritual experiences forever engraved into our souls.

“Here in Nettuno is the sacred burial ground of 7,858 Americans. Also, in the on-site chapel an additional 3,095 names are engraved into stone. These are the missing in action, lost at sea, or buried at sea.

China, California and Back to New Jersey

During today's visit I also shared experiences in China, and serving law enforcement in California to work on suicide prevention.

When I returned home to New Jersey after 9 months of travel to Italy, China, and California, I received a call from NYPD Commissioner Thomas G. Donlon.

Soon after this call, my initiative, built on the pillars of ethical leadership, morale, emotional resiliency, and suicide prevention began.  

I was appointed the NYPD Honorary Law Enforcement Motivational Speaker after an extensive vetting process with many department representatives.

ETHICAL LEADERSHIP, MORALE, RESILIENCY, SUICIDE PREVENTION

While in California on November 7, 2023, there was a sobering headline that pierced my soul:

“Four current and former L.A. Sheriff’s Department employees died by suicide in a 24-hour span”

The suicide deaths, four within 24 hours, prompted a plea from Sheriff Robert Luna urging deputies to check on the well-being of their colleagues and friends.

“We are stunned to learn of these deaths, and it has sent shock waves of emotions throughout the department as we try and cope with the loss of not just one, but four beloved active and retired members of our department family,” Luna said in an emailed statement Tuesday. “During difficult times like these it’s important for personnel regardless of rank or position to check on the well-being of other colleagues and friends.”

Since I would be in California for at least another 2 months, I was compelled to act.

ONE PHONE CALL

Sometimes, as law enforcement knows, moving a mountain can begin with just one phone call, and so I called the U.S. Marshall of the SDNY.

In turn, Marshall Ralph Sozio made one phone call, to the right person, the NYPD liaison in California, and the chain of events to address the crisis began.

The NYPD liaison, Detective John Lunt, set up an initiative for my presentation to representatives from 18 law enforcement agencies from throughout California.

Before continuing, a simple reminder of how to respond to a crisis. We begin communication in a profoundly simple but meaningful way – pick up the phone, and make the call with confidence, resolve, and commitment.

Just one phone call can set into motion a chain of events that can transform lives.

Police Suicides: Awareness, Compassion, Action

Subsequently, this California initiative was followed with an article for my column for the National Association of Chiefs of Police.

The article was titled, Police Suicides: Awareness, Compassion, Action.

OPERATION RESILIENCY: BACKGROUND

Seven months ago, I developed the initiative titled NYPD /FDNY Operation Resiliency: Ethical Leadership, Morale, Emotional Resiliency, Suicide Prevention.

Since then, I have been privileged to conduct presentations including peer support at both the NYPD and FDNY academies and the MTAPD, NYPD promotion classes, fraternal organizations, firehouses, roll calls, suicide prevention training sessions with Dr. Stephen Wacshal of ConQueR Suicide, an NYPD Spiritual Retreat, and many follow up chats and communications.

THE WOUNDED HEALER

As with other recent presentations, today I shared thoughts on The Wounded Healer by Henri Nouwen.

A few thoughts of this concept:

 “When our wounds cease to be a source of shame, and become a source of healing, we have become wounded healers.”

• “Nobody escapes being wounded. We are all wounded people, whether physically, emotionally, mentally, or spiritually.”

• “Our service will not be perceived as authentic, unless it comes from a heart wounded by the suffering we encounter in others.”

• “The main question is not ‘How can we hide our wounds? so we don’t have to be embarrassed, but   How can we put our woundedness in the service of others?”

Today, beside sharing thoughts on The Wounded Healer, easily transitioned to The Wounded Protector for all law enforcement, I would also like you to be empowered with another thought - The Ethical Protector.

THE ETHICAL PROTECTOR

The Ethical Protector: each of us dedicated to the noble law enforcement profession has a unique moral compass – ethical protectors.

The law enforcement DNA irrefutably has a laser focus - protecting innocent, vulnerable, helpless, and marginalized members of society.

This ethical protector moral compass is so fine-tuned, that we understand that as protectors, that wherever we are, people are safe because of our presence.

THE ETHICAL PROTECTOR: DEDICATED TO THE BROKENHEARTED

A quick thought - after one of my presentations, I was approached by a young woman who asked for my advice.

She asked, “what do I do. I feel so broken inside, a place no one can see, hopeless and most importantly invisible to others. Sometimes I feel that my soul is crying, and if only someone would just acknowledge me, ask me if I am OK – what I would do for someone to invite me to just sit with them and listen to me.”

The brokenhearted are in our families, communities, workplaces, within the NYPD – we must respond with compassion, concern, and empathy. We must have our eyes, and our hearts wide open.

Recently, during one of my volunteer visits to senior residence homes, (where I am privileged to visit

about 40 seniors, at times on their death beds, to administer the Eucharist) an 86-year-old woman told me another story.

She shared the story of her father, NYPD Detective James Francis Carberry, who died by suicide in 1938.

Clare told me she was a 10-year-old girl, and the first one to find her father after his death by suicide.

The memory of this tragedy has remained with Claire throughout her life.

Clare asked me to share that she did not have the knowledge as a child to see, the signs.

She asked me to share - you have the power through your encounters, observation skills, empathy, compassion, and sixth-sense to respond to the warning signs of brokenness.

Do so with kindness, dignity, and affirmation – you can change, and save lives.

During my break between roll call presentations, I took time to walk through Union Square Park.  The magnificent park sits above the NYPD Transit District Four Command, and has an inspiring statue of Abraham Lincoln.

The statue reminded me of my many articles spotlighting his character, and includes this excerpt from an article I authored for The New Jersey Police Chief in 2005 titled American Leadership in an Age of Scandal:

"Abraham Lincoln remains an icon of service to country in the midst of conflict, turmoil and scandal. In the book, Lincoln's Virtues, An Ethical Biography, author William Lee Miller gives us a fresh, insightful and engaging story so critical for America's response to an age of many small-minded individuals attracted to positions of power only for self-aggrandizement and whom are out of touch with the plight of many disenfranchised fellow citizens.

"As one studies Lincoln's actions, speeches and writing, as well as personal accounts from those who knew him, the book provides the current American culture of abuse with the needed response, that is, a progression of moral development of one preparing and dedicated to serve. Abraham Lincoln is the paragon of a great American politician, one who made the decision to enter American politics with full realization that the essence of service in American life must be grounded without reservation in moral responsibility.

"As a youth reading by the frontier fireside in order to develop his academic and moral fiber, Lincoln serves America to this very day as a model since the higher he rose and the greater the power, the worthier his conduct became. Lincoln's legacy holds the key to reversing the current scandalous trend of a public and private pestilence of corruption since he was not only a great man of profound authority but a man of unquestionable character. His character is inseparable from his thought, word and action and can be concisely understood from his words on February 27, 1860:

"'Let us have faith that right makes might, and in that faith, let us, to the end, dare to do our duty as we understand it.'

"Hear and understand Abraham Lincoln well, all who are in positions of power and authority over the people of America"

DR. CONRAD BAARS: THE HEALING POWER OF AFFIRMATION

During the last 45 years, I have been a practitioner of the famous psychiatrist Dr. Conrad Baars.

His vast collection of books can be summed up as follows:

Affirmation has a power that can transform lives.  It is a catalyst that ignites hope into the souls of human beings. Affirmation recognizes, appreciates, and encourages the qualities of others.


“The challenges of life can deprive individuals of the basic human need of unconditional love and appreciation. Yet, the affirmative person, the wounded healer, and for us today, the wounded protector, inspires healing of the body, mind, spirit, and emotions.”    Vincent J. Bove

A REFLECTION

Inspired by the honor guard of the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier at Arlington National Cemetery in Washington D.C., I ask you to apply these words from the Sentinel’s creed, from those who guard the tomb.

This sacred place holds our heroes who died in service of America.

The message from their creed applies to each of us; in our noble, necessary, and admirable work to protect society:


“My dedication to this sacred duty is total and wholehearted. In the responsibility bestowed upon me, never will I falter.

“And with dignity and perseverance my standard will remain perfection.”

Let us continue our mission as it is honorable and necessary for our communities, and always remember that each of you is appreciated and admired.

FINAL REFLECTION: THE LIBERATION MONUMENT

Surrounded by the significance of Ellis Island, the Statue of Liberty and the New York skyline is the Liberation Monument in Liberty View Park, Jersey City, N.J.

Designed by sculptor Nathan Rapaport, this inspirational statue depicts a World War II American soldier carrying a survivor from a concentration camp.

This image moves the soul to reflect on the values of compassion, character, and courage.

A photo of this magnificent monument is often shared with my audiences. 

It is my sincere hope to inspire them to connect with the great Americans of our history, and uphold their legacy through their privileged profession as members of the NYPD.

Leadership is pivotal for our NYPD personnel, and all our first responders. 

Our public servants are a national treasure. We must be fully dedicated and committed to assisting each of them, and one another. 

This will lead to America's rightful destiny as a beacon of moral leadership for the world.

NOTE WELL:  It has been my privilege to collaborate with the Columbia Lighthouse Project (CLP)
over the last two months, and to use their emotional resiliency and suicide prevention app on my phone. 

During this time, I have also distributed their suicide awareness and prevention card to NYPD personnel. 

Recently, NYPD Health and Wellness realized the advantage of collaborating with CLP and will have the CLP suicide prevention app available to NYPD personnel. 

This imperative technology as documented in my Principles of American Policing for the NACOP (Cover Story / Summer 2015) is essential to benefit the emotional resiliency of the NYPD, and law enforcement throughout America.

    Principle of America Policing No. Five is as follows:  

      “Police deserve the latest and most effective technology to protect themselves and the public." 

    ABOUT VINCENT

Vincent J. Bove is a national speaker, author, and confidant on issues critical to America with 325 published works.

His most recent of four books are Reawakening America © and Listen to Their Cries.© 

Bove is recipient of the FBI Director's Community Leadership Award, former confidant of players from two world-champion New York Yankee teams, and served as spokesperson for a coalition of Virginia Tech tragedy victim's families. 

In 2024, Bove was appointed Honorary Law Enforcement Motivational Speaker by the NYPD.  

In this role he addresses ethical leadership, building morale, emotional resiliency, and suicide prevention at NYPD and FDNY events, roll calls, firehouses, and in published works.

Bove has been an author for the National Association of Chiefs of Police for 15 years. He has over 60 published works, and an unprecedented 18 cover stories for their magazine.

Bove served the Bergen County Police Chiefs Association for 20 consecutive years as liaison and chairperson on policing leadership, violence prevention, and public safety issues.

He conducted Leadership Principles: Crisis Planning, Community Partnerships, Violence Prevention © keynotes to safeguard New York City at sites including:

·       Museums hosted by the Museum of Modern Art (MoMA)

·       Corporations hosted by The New York Stock Exchange

·       Hospitals hosted by Rockefeller University

·       Properties hosted by The Union Club of New York

·       Universities hosted by Columbia University, the New York Athletic Club and Fordham University.

Bove has conducted extensive leadership presentations for the NYPD, FBI, the United States Military Academy, law enforcement, educators, security professionals, and students nationwide. vincentbove.com

“We must all serve as catalysts to protect our workplaces, schools, communities, public spaces, houses of worship, and one another. 

“Public safety demands leadership, vigilance, and collaboration.  

"Security and personal safety demands comprehensive enhancements, on-going training, effective response to warning signs, and building bridges with law enforcement, private security, and every member of the community.”  Vincent J Bove


Survey Excerpts on Bove Presentation to the NYPD Transit District Four

"Keep spreading your positive messages and boosting the NYPD morale - 100 % on target."

"Motivational, we need longer time with Bove and the opportunity to exchange more ideas with him and one another."

"Perfect speech, great message, well-delivered, visit every NYPD Transit District in Manhattan."

"The speech was great and empowering...today's NYPD needs this to improve morale and assist with mental health."

"Great speech, very inspiring, very articulate."

"The remarks were very detailed, and I like how the speaker spoke from different points of view...we need more training like this."

"Appreciated, hope we can have more visits like this."

Related Bove Published Works by the National Association of Chiefs of Police:

The NYPD: Leading Through a National Crisis ©

NYPD Employee Assistance Unit: Leading Through a National Crisis ©

21st Century Policing: Issues and Response                           

21st Century American Policing Demands Ethical Leadership

Police Suicides: Awareness, Compassion, Action

Safeguarding America’s Protectors: A Community Responsibility

America’s Law Enforcement Sacrifices Demand Eternal Gratitude

Igniting 21st Century Ethical Policing: Understanding the Profession

PHOTOS:

1. Vincent J. Bove speaks to NYPD Transit District Four, May 7, 2025. Courtesy: NYPD Sgt. Michael Romano, Transit District Four.

2. Florence American Military Cemetery, June 21, 2023. Reawakening America LLC (RALLC)

3. Florence American Military Cemetery, June 21, 2023 and Sicily Rome American Cemetery, July 1, 2023. (RALLC)

4. Illustration Credit: Sgt. Zachary Saenz, Edinburg Police Department.

5. NYPD Transit District Four Memorial Plaque inside the command. (RALLC)

6. The Columbia Lighthouse Project in collaboration with Reawakening America LLC.

7. NYPD Transit District District Four pre-roll call, May 7, 2025. (RALLC)

8. Abraham Lincoln statue in Union Square Park. (RALLC)

9. The NACOP article titled The Tomb of the Unknown Soldier, Vincent J. Bove. (NACOP)

10. The Liberation Monument, Jersey City, NJ. (RALLC)

11. Principles of America Policing, Cover Story by Vincent J. Bove for the NACOP, Summer 2015, also published numerous times since 2015 in The Sentinel and NACOP articles.

12. NYPD Transit District Four Collage during Bove visit on May 7, 2025. (RALLC)

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Wednesday, April 30, 2025

The NYPD 121st Precinct: Leadership, Vigilance, Patriotism

On Tuesday, April 29, 2025, I was privileged to share remarks throughout the NYPD 121st Precinct on Staten Island.

The 121st Precinct serves the northwestern shore of Staten Island, containing Willowbrook, Westerleigh, Port Richmond, Mariner's Harbor, Elm Park, Port Ivory, Chelsea, and Bloomfield.

My remarks throughout the precinct were titled The NYPD 121st Precinct: Leadership, Vigilance, Patriotism.

During my visit, I was privileged to meet the Patrol Borough Staten Island (PBSI) executives, and to address the afternoon roll call.

I also met individuals representing crime analysis and domestic violence, community affairs, compliance, retail theft, and the neighborhood coordinating officers.

A Prayerful Pause

A special note of profound respect is due for Jozette Carter, the wife of NYPD Fallen Officer Gerard Louis Carter.

The presence of Jozette at the event reminded all that we must never forget the fallen heroes of our communities, or their loved ones.

Prior to visiting the 121st Precinct, I visited the 120th Precinct, and while there took time to reflect at the magnificent monument that honors Officer Carter's selfless sacrifice.

It was truly a honor to be with Jozette, and I pray my words gave her a sense of encouragement, grace, and support.

Gratitude

Melissa A. Eger, Assistant Chief / Commanding Officer for the Patrol Borough Staten Island (PBSI) for her admirable leadership and hospitality during my visit to her office.

Terence Hurson, Deputy Chief / Executive Officer PBSI, for his time during my visit with him, and his invitation for me to address the PBSI Executive Pre-Deployment Planning Meeting for the upcoming bike tour.

Glorisel Lee, Deputy Inspector / Commanding Officer of the 121 for her wonderful discussion with me, and for her exceptional leadership with her command.

Sergeant Danny Commender for his talents with coordinating all facets of todays visit to the 121, and his professionalism throughout the pre-visit planning.

Officer Sean Mondello for his kindness photographing my visit, and social media posts memorializing the event.



THE SENTINEL

As with many of my law enforcement activities over the last 25 years, they are memorialized in The Sentinel.

This provides a resource for law enforcement, government leaders, and communities.

The documentation respects the importance of collaboration; and the need to work together to empower, encourage, and inspire character.

It also serves my goal of assisting law enforcement agencies to be recognized as a national model of 21st Century Policing. 

These efforts are published in my numerous articles for the National Association of Chiefs of Police for the last 15 years.

My efforts have been privileged to receive a unique spotlight since my privileged appointment as the NYPD Honorary Law Enforcement Motivational Speaker six months ago.

Honoring American Sacrifices - As memorialized in The Chief of Police

During my remarks today, I took time to share experiences my wife and I had visiting both World War II American military cemeteries in Italy.

We visited these sacred grounds to honor Americans who offered the ultimate sacrifice for freedom.

Respecting our military, and reverence for those who lost their lives in service of our freedom, is an indisputable principle for the reawakening of our nation.  

It is also one of the nine Principles of American Policing.

This respect is complemented by honoring the fallen law enforcement professionals who have lost their lives protecting and serving our communities.

Reflections of the World War II American Military Cemetery visits are memorialized in the journal I maintained during our travels and are as follows:

“In the afternoon, we traveled from Florence, Italy to the Florence American WWII Cemetery, 7 ½ miles south in Impruneta to honor American hero’s from World War II.

“On these sacred grounds lie 4,393 Americans.

“There is also a large sculptured figure on site titled ‘The Spirit of Peace’ and tablets of 1,409 have their names engraved upon it as missing in action.

“While walking these hallowed grounds, we felt mystically connected to these sacred souls, a deeper appreciation of America, and profoundly aware of the price of freedom.”

July 1, 2023: Sicily-Rome American Cemetery



“Today we traveled 1.5 hours by train from Rome to the Sicily-Rome American Cemetery in the town of Nettuno.

“We then walked 25 minutes from the station to the cemetery, morally obligated as Americans to visit both resting places for our World War II heroes.

“These visitations were enriching spiritual experiences forever engraved into our souls.

“Here in Nettuno is the sacred burial ground of 7,858 Americans. Also, in the on-site chapel an additional 3,095 names are engraved into stone. These are the missing in action, lost at sea, or buried at sea.

China, California and Back to New Jersey

During today's visit I also shared experiences in China, and serving law enforcement in California to work on suicide prevention.

When I returned home to New Jersey after 9 months of travel to Italy, China, and California, I received a call from NYPD Commissioner Thomas G. Donlon.

Soon after this call, my initiative, built on the pillars of ethical leadership, morale, emotional resiliency, and suicide prevention began.  

I was appointed the NYPD Honorary Law Enforcement Motivational Speaker after an extensive vetting process with many department representatives.

ETHICAL LEADERSHIP, MORALE, RESILIENCY, SUICIDE PREVENTION

While in California on November 7, 2023, there was a sobering headline that pierced my soul:

“Four current and former L.A. Sheriff’s Department employees died by suicide in a 24-hour span”

The suicide deaths, four within 24 hours, prompted a plea from Sheriff Robert Luna urging deputies to check on the well-being of their colleagues and friends.

“We are stunned to learn of these deaths, and it has sent shock waves of emotions throughout the department as we try and cope with the loss of not just one, but four beloved active and retired members of our department family,” Luna said in an emailed statement Tuesday. “During difficult times like these it’s important for personnel regardless of rank or position to check on the well-being of other colleagues and friends.”

Since I would be in California for at least another 2 months, I was compelled to act.

ONE PHONE CALL

Sometimes, as law enforcement knows, moving a mountain can begin with just one phone call, and so I called the U.S. Marshall of the SDNY.

In turn, Marshall Ralph Sozio made one phone call, to the right person, the NYPD liaison in California, and the chain of events to address the crisis began.

The NYPD liaison, Detective John Lunt, set up an initiative for my presentation to representatives from 18 law enforcement agencies from throughout California.

Before continuing, a simple reminder of how to respond to a crisis. We begin communication in a profoundly simple but meaningful way – pick up the phone, and make the call with confidence, resolve, and commitment.

Just one phone call can set into motion a chain of events that can transform lives.

Police Suicides: Awareness, Compassion, Action

Subsequently, this California initiative was followed with an article for my column for the National Association of Chiefs of Police.

The article was titled, Police Suicides: Awareness, Compassion, Action.

OPERATION RESILIENCY: BACKGROUND

Seven months ago, I developed the initiative titled 
NYPD /FDNY Operation Resiliency: Ethical Leadership, Morale, Emotional Resiliency, Suicide Prevention.

Since then, I have been privileged to conduct presentations including peer support at both the NYPD and FDNY academies and the MTAPD, NYPD promotion classes, fraternal organizations, firehouses, roll calls, suicide prevention training sessions with Dr. Stephen Wacshal of ConQueR Suicide, an NYPD Spiritual Retreat, and many follow up chats and communications.

THE WOUNDED HEALER

As with other recent presentations, today I shared thoughts on The Wounded Healer by Henri Nouwen.

A few thoughts of this concept:

 “When our wounds cease to be a source of shame, and become a source of healing, we have become wounded healers.”

• “Nobody escapes being wounded. We are all wounded people, whether physically, emotionally, mentally, or spiritually.”

• “Our service will not be perceived as authentic, unless it comes from a heart wounded by the suffering we encounter in others.”

• “The main question is not ‘How can we hide our wounds? so we don’t have to be embarrassed, but   How can we put our woundedness in the service of others?”

Today, beside sharing thoughts on The Wounded Healer, easily transitioned to The Wounded Protector for all law enforcement, I would also like you to be empowered with another thought - The Ethical Protector.

THE ETHICAL PROTECTOR

The Ethical Protector: each of us dedicated to the noble law enforcement profession has a unique moral compass – ethical protectors.

The law enforcement DNA irrefutably has a laser focus - protecting innocent, vulnerable, helpless, and marginalized members of society.

This ethical protector moral compass is so fine-tuned, that we understand that as protectors, that wherever we are, people are safe because of our presence.

THE ETHICAL PROTECTOR: DEDICATED TO THE BROKENHEARTED

A quick thought - after one of my presentations, I was approached by a young woman who asked for my advice.

She asked, “what do I do. I feel so broken inside, a place no one can see, hopeless and most importantly invisible to others. Sometimes I feel that my soul is crying, and if only someone would just acknowledge me, ask me if I am OK – what I would do for someone to invite me to just sit with them and listen to me.”


The brokenhearted are in our families, communities, workplaces, within the NYPD – we must respond with compassion, concern, and empathy. We must have our eyes, and our hearts wide open.

Recently, during one of my volunteer visits to senior residence homes, (where I am privileged to visit about 40 seniors, at times on their death beds, to administer the Eucharist) an 86-year-old woman told me another story.

She shared the story of her father, NYPD Detective James Francis Carberry, who died by suicide in 1938.

Clare told me she was a 10-year-old girl, and the first one to find her father after his death by suicide.

The memory of this tragedy has remained with Claire throughout her life.

Clare asked me to share that she did not have the knowledge as a child to see, the signs.

She asked me to share - you have the power through your encounters, observation skills, empathy, compassion, and sixth-sense to respond to the warning signs of brokenness.

Do so with kindness, dignity, and affirmation – you can change, and save lives.

DR. CONRAD BAARS: THE HEALING POWER OF AFFIRMATION

During the last 45 years, I have been a practitioner of the famous psychiatrist Dr. Conrad Baars.

His vast collection of books can be summed up as follows:

Affirmation has a power that can transform lives.  It is a catalyst that ignites hope into the souls of human beings. Affirmation recognizes, appreciates, and encourages the qualities of others.


“The challenges of life can deprive individuals of the basic human need of unconditional love and appreciation. Yet, the affirmative person, the wounded healer, and for us today, the wounded protector, inspires healing of the body, mind, spirit, and emotions.”    Vincent J. Bove

A REFLECTION

Inspired by the honor guard of the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier at Arlington National Cemetery in Washington D.C., I ask you to apply these words from the Sentinel’s creed, from those who guard the tomb.

This sacred place holds our heroes who died in service of America.

The message from their creed applies to each of us; in our noble, necessary, and admirable work to protect society:


“My dedication to this sacred duty is total and wholehearted. In the responsibility bestowed upon me, never will I falter.

“And with dignity and perseverance my standard will remain perfection.”

Let us continue our mission as it is honorable and necessary for our communities, and always remember that each of you is appreciated and admired.

FINAL REFLECTION: THE LIBERATION MONUMENT

Surrounded by the significance of Ellis Island, the Statue of Liberty and the New York skyline is the Liberation Monument in Liberty View Park, Jersey City, N.J.

Designed by sculptor Nathan Rapaport, this inspirational statue depicts a World War II American soldier carrying a survivor from a concentration camp.

This image moves the soul to reflect on the values of compassion, character, and courage.

A photo of this magnificent monument is often shared with my audiences. 

It is my sincere hope to inspire them to connect with the great Americans of our history, and uphold their legacy through their privileged profession as members of the NYPD.

Leadership is pivotal for our NYPD personnel, and all our first responders. 

Our public servants are a national treasure. We must be fully dedicated and committed to assisting each of them, and one another. 

This will lead to America's rightful destiny as a beacon of moral leadership for the world.

NOTE WELL:  It has been my privilege to collaborate with the Columbia Lighthouse Project (CLP)
over the last two months, and to use their emotional resiliency and suicide prevention app on my phone. 

During this time, I have also distributed their suicide awareness and prevention card to NYPD personnel. 

Recently, NYPD Health and Wellness realized the advantage of collaborating with CLP and will have the CLP suicide prevention app available to NYPD personnel. 

This imperative technology as documented in my Principles of American Policing for the NACOP (Cover Story / Summer 2015) is essential to benefit the emotional resiliency of the NYPD, and law enforcement throughout America.

    Principle of America Policing No. Five is as follows:  

      “Police deserve the latest and most effective technology to protect themselves and the public." 

    ABOUT VINCENT

Vincent J. Bove is a national speaker, author, and confidant on issues critical to America with 325 published works.

His most recent of four books are Reawakening America © and Listen to Their Cries.© 

Bove is recipient of the FBI Director's Community Leadership Award, former confidant of players from two world-champion New York Yankee teams, and served as spokesperson for a coalition of Virginia Tech tragedy victim's families. 

In 2024, Bove was appointed Honorary Law Enforcement Motivational Speaker by the NYPD.  

In this role he addresses ethical leadership, building morale, emotional resiliency, and suicide prevention at NYPD and FDNY events, roll calls, firehouses, and in published works.

Bove has been an author for the National Association of Chiefs of Police for 15 years. He has over 60 published works, and an unprecedented 18 cover stories for their magazine.

Bove served the Bergen County Police Chiefs Association for 20 consecutive years as liaison and chairperson on policing leadership, violence prevention, and public safety issues.

He conducted Leadership Principles: Crisis Planning, Community Partnerships, Violence Prevention © keynotes to safeguard New York City at sites including:

·       Museums hosted by the Museum of Modern Art (MoMA)

·       Corporations hosted by The New York Stock Exchange

·       Hospitals hosted by Rockefeller University

·       Properties hosted by The Union Club of New York

·       Universities hosted by Columbia University, the New York Athletic Club and Fordham University.

Bove has conducted extensive leadership presentations for the NYPD, FBI, the United States Military Academy, law enforcement, educators, security professionals, and students nationwide. vincentbove.com

“We must all serve as catalysts to protect our workplaces, schools, communities, public spaces, houses of worship, and one another. 


“Public safety demands leadership, vigilance, and collaboration.  


"Security and personal safety demands comprehensive enhancements, on-going training, effective response to warning signs, and building bridges with law enforcement, private security, and every member of the community.”  Vincent J Bove


Survey Excerpts on Bove Recent Presentation to the NYPD Police Self Support Group

"Bove was inspirational and encouraging.  He impacts many in a positive and therapeutic approach...this is needed at the police academy with the future members of the NYPD."

"Excellent Presentation, please continue attending our meetings, and speak at the police academy, the beginning of the officers careers - 100% on today's presentation, truly excellent."

"Bove did an amazing job with everything - leadership, morale, emotional health and suicide prevention needed in today's NYPD - keep doing what your doing as the NYPD needs this department wide."

"Keep getting the message out, and especially in the high-crime precincts."

"This message is needed in all of the NYPD commands, 100 % on point."

"The speaker did a great job connecting with us when morale and emotional health is needed."

Related Bove Published Works by the National Association of Chiefs of Police:

The NYPD: Leading Through a National Crisis ©

NYPD Employee Assistance Unit: Leading Through a National Crisis ©

21st Century Policing: Issues and Response                           

21st Century American Policing Demands Ethical Leadership

Police Suicides: Awareness, Compassion, Action

Safeguarding America’s Protectors: A Community Responsibility

America’s Law Enforcement Sacrifices Demand Eternal Gratitude

Igniting 21st Century Ethical Policing: Understanding the Profession

PHOTOS:

1. NYPD 121 Roll Call, Apr. 29, 2025. Reawakening America LLC (RALLC)

2. NYPD Officer Gerard Louis Carter

3. Florence American Military Cemetery, June 21, 2023. (RALLC)

4. Florence American Military Cemetery, June 21, 2023 and Sicily Rome American Cemetery, July 1, 2023. (RALLC)

5. Illustration Credit: Sgt. Zachary Saenz, Edinburg Police Department.

6. Vincent J. Bove remarks to NYPD 121 roll call, Apr. 29, 2025. (RALLC)

7. The Columbia Lighthouse Project in collaboration with Reawakening America LLC.

8. PBSI Bike Tour Executive Planning Group, Apr. 29, 2025. (RALLC)

9. The NACOP article titled The Tomb of the Unknown Soldier, Vincent J. Bove. (NACOP)

10. The Liberation Monument, Jersey City, NJ. (RALLC)

11. Principles of America Policing, Cover Story by Vincent J. Bove for the NACOP, Summer 2015, also published numerous times since 2015 in The Sentinel and NACOP articles.

12. NYPD PBSI and 121 Precinct Collage Apr. 29, 2025. (RALLC)

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