The NYPD: Leading Through a National Crisis ©

On Thursday, November 14, 2024, I was the privileged guest speaker for the Medical Division of the NYPD at their Corona, Queens facility.

My remarks were made possible due to the leadership of Police Commissioner Thomas G. Donlon. 

The event was coordinated by the NYPD Chief Supervising Surgeon Eli J. Kleinman, M.D., M.P.H.

I am deeply grateful to Commissioner Donlon for making today possible, and to Dr. Kleinman for his kind introduction, hospitality, and professionalism.

The NYPD Police Self-Support Group

The attendees were members of the NYPD Police Self-Support Group (PSSG) and were profoundly inspirational.  

Each introduced themselves prior to my presentation, sharing experiences of their personal line-of-duty injuries.

Their stories ignited a sense of respect, honor, and gratitude within my soul for their sacrifices.

These individuals represent the finest of all of us, and their experiences are a powerhouse of wisdom for every member of the NYPD.

Presentation

My remarks were titled The NYPD: Leading Through a National Crisis © and I addressed the following:

·       The challenging times for law enforcement throughout America, with alarming levels of stress, morale concerns, senseless acts of violence, and suicide.

·       The NYPD is not immune to these challenges, and each of us must be fully dedicated to a culture of respect, affirmation, and gratitude.

·       The necessity of principled leadership, morale enhancement, emotional resilience, and suicide prevention.

·       The importance of inspiring ethical protectors, personified by character, empathy, and compassion for others.

·       A goal of igniting a culture that values the physical, spiritual, and mental well-being of every member of the NYPD.

The Wounded Healer

My remarks continued with sharing my personal commentary on the wisdom from the 1979 book titled The Wounded Healer © by Henri Nouwen.  

The commentary included insights from some quotes from his book (some of which are paraphrased):

·       “When our wounds cease to be a source of shame, and become a source of healing, we have become wounded healers.”

·       “Nobody escapes being wounded. We are all wounded people, whether physically, emotionally, mentally, or spiritually.”

·       “Our service will not be perceived as authentic, unless it comes from a heart wounded by the suffering we encounter.”

·       “The main question is not ‘How can we hide our wounds?’ so we don’t have to be embarrassed, but ‘How can we put our woundedness in the service of others?”

·       “To enter into solidarity with a suffering person does not mean that we have to talk with that person about our own suffering.  Speaking about our own pain is seldom helpful for someone who is in pain.”

·       “A wounded healer is someone who can listen [and empathize] to a person in pain without having to speak about his or her own wounds.”

·       “When we have lived through pain, we can listen with great attentiveness and compassion to another in pain without spotlighting our experience.”

·       “Mostly, it is better not to direct a suffering person’s attention to ourselves.  We have to trust that our own damaged wounds will allow us to listen to others with our whole being.  That leads to healing."

“On November 14, The Police Self Support Group had the honor of meeting Vincent J. Bove who represented the Police Commissioner.

“It was truly impressive and uplifting to have someone speak to us, and chat individually before and after his presentation, who supports our program and methodology.

“Vincent’s presentation focused on the wounded healer, and he encouraged us to use our experiences to help others to heal.

“We are confident that our program can serve as a national model on police helping one another. We are hopeful that with individuals like Vincent in our corner, and others who support the NYPD, we will be more effective in our dedication to assist our police family, and our communities.”

Peter Pallos, Training Coordinator (PSSG), 23 years with the group.

Confidential Chats

After and before my presentation, I was humbled to have numerous one-on-one confidential chats with attendees.  It was enlightening listening to their stories and concerns, and an opportunity to share my respect, encouragement, and appreciation. 

It was additionally humbling to have them invite me to numerous upcoming NYPD events. 

These men and woman of the NYPD are treasures. I assured them that I will continually do everything in my power to assist them.

One of these conversations was with a remarkable woman, whose story I am now privileged to share.

NYPD Detective First Grade Kathy Burke retd.

After my presentation, I had the pleasure of speaking with NYPD Detective First Grade Kathy Burke retd., an inspirational trailblazer in the department’s history.

Five days later, fascinated by her experience, and realizing her story needs to be shared, I we had a more comprehensive conversation.

Kathy became an NYPD officer in 1968, and in 1971 was promoted to detective.

She was the third woman in the history of the department to have been awarded their medal of honor.

Kathy has been a leader of the Police Self Help Group (PSHG) for 39 years.  She is one of the original founders, and currently the Vice President of the PSHG.

The Police Self Support Group gives purpose to whatever trauma one has experienced. The group empowers you to help others, and by doing so you also bring healing to yourself.”

NYPD Detective Kathy Burke, PSHG Vice President

A Lighthouse for Healing

Kathy told me on how on a hot August day in 1971, while conducting a drug investigation, she was robbed, beat-up, stabbed and had a gun put to her head and fired.

She only survived because by the grace of God, the gun misfired.

There was a limited understanding of PTSD in the 1970’s, but one of Kathy’s Lieutenant’s was ahead of his time.  He gave Kathy support, encouragement, and debriefing experiences.

Decades later, these lessons continue as Kathy has been a lighthouse of healing for countless individuals who have experienced catastrophic events.

“You Do Not Have to Die”

In 1982, Kathy experienced another catastrophic line-of-duty incident while working with the NYPD Bomb Squad.  An explosion left both her and her partner temporarily deaf.

A few years later, in 1984, FBI Special Agent Jim Reese shared eye-opening wisdom that had a lasting impact on Kathy.

Jim stated that “if you ever get shot, you do not have to die.”

Six months later, Kathy was in an incident where she and her partner were shot.  Since that incident forty-six years ago, Kathy still has shrapnel in her lung.  And after being shot, as she lay wounded on the ground, one of the three shooters kicked her mercilessly fracturing two ribs.

Tragically, her partners wound was fatal, and as Kathy lay there, she remembered the inspiring words of Reese, “if you ever get shot, you do not have to die.”

Kathy realized she must survive – she must get up, get to a phone (cellphones were non-existent) and tell her story.

Police Self Help Group

In 1986, Kathy was invited to a NYPD Support Group for officers catastrophically ill, or in line-of-duty incidents, and spent years assisting her police family.

Fast-Forward to 1995, when during the fourth trial of her shooting, there was dismissal of the trial, and acquittal of the shooter.

Kathy was horrified by the injustice, and at the attitude of one of the juror’s whom she met afterwards, who derisively stated “cops get paid to die.”

Tragedy Leads to Recovery

Backpedal back to 1986, when Kathy met Dr. Martin Symonds, M.D. and psychiatrist.

Dr. Symonds was a trauma specialist who influenced Kathy’s healing. He sent her to help traumatized cops heal through listening, compassion, and encouragement.

On December 2, 1994, NYPD Officer Raymond R. Cannon, Jr., 26-years-old, was shot and killed while he and his partner responded to a call to investigate a suspicious person at a bicycle shop. [1]

Shortly afterwards, the wisdom of Dr. Symonds ignited a profound epiphany in Kathy’s life.

As requested by Dr. Symonds, Kathy visited Officer Cannon’s surviving partner who was starving himself to death due to survivor’s guilt.  Kathy listened to his heartbreaking story, and then showed him her wounds. Both started to cry and at that moment, his life was reclaimed and his road to recovery began.

This was a defining experience for Kathy, illustrating that her wounds now had a clarity of purpose.  It inspired Kathy to start a 1995 Police Self Help Group, learn hypnosis for counseling, train wounded colleagues to recapture their lives, and inspire healing for individuals of numerous addictions, phobias, and catastrophic experiences.

Final Reflections

Kathy believes that although a clinical approach to healing is sometimes necessary; listening, affirming, and encouraging are also powerful antidotes to pain.

Currently, the NYPD PSHG is comprised of about 200 members.  There are about 50 members who have had, or currently experiencing serious illnesses.  The remaining 150 members have experienced line-of-duty incidents including shootings, stabbings, vehicular accidents, and assaults.

There are angels amongst us, who do the work of heaven as wounded healers. They bring hope, comfort, and healing to others.  Kathy Burke is one of these angels, and in meeting her one can truly experience heavenly kindness, grace, and compassion.

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[1] https://www.odmp.org/officer/745-police-officer-raymond-r-cannon-jr

 Related:

21st Century Policing: Issues and Response

21st Century American Policing Demands Ethical Leadership

Police Suicides: Awareness, Compassion, Action

About Vincent

Vincent J. Bove is a national speaker, author, and confidant on issues critical to America with over 325 published works. 

His most recent of four books are Reawakening America © and Listen to Their Cries.© 

Bove is recipient of the FBI Director’s Community Leadership Award, former confidant of players from two world-champion New York Yankee teams, and served as spokesperson for a coalition of Virginia Tech tragedy victim’s families.

Bove has been an author for the National Association of Chiefs of Police for 15 years, with over 60 published works, and an unprecedented 18 cover stories for their magazine. 

He served the Bergen County Police Chiefs Association for 20 consecutive years as liaison and chairperson on policing leadership, violence prevention, and public safety issues.

Bove developed Leadership Principles: Crisis Planning, Community Partnerships, Violence Prevention© keynotes to safeguard New York City at sites including:

·         Museums hosted by the Museum of Modern Art (MoMA)

·         Corporations hosted by The New York Stock Exchange

·         Hospitals hosted by Rockefeller University

·         Properties hosted by The Union Club of New York

·         Universities hosted by Columbia University, the New York Athletic Club and Fordham University.

Bove has conducted extensive leadership presentations for the FBI, the United States Military Academy, law enforcement, educators, security professionals, and students nationwide. www.vincentbove.com

“We must all serve as catalysts to protect our workplaces, schools, communities, public spaces, houses of worship, and one another. Public safety demands leadership, vigilance, and collaboration.  Security demands comprehensive enhancements, on-going training, effective response to warning signs, and building bridges with law enforcement, private security, and every member of the community.”  Vincent J Bove

Contact: vincent@vincentbove.com

School Violence Countermeasures: Toxic Personalities, Warning Signs, Imminent Warning Signs

An understanding of toxic personalities is essential to law enforcement, private security professionals, educators, mental health professionals, and the judicial system, especially in regard to violence prevention.

The book How to Deal with Toxic People identifies the problematic personality types as follows:

·       The Deceiver — one who habitually lies, which is part of a larger deceptive context. This personality type creates mistrust, chaos, and uncertainty.

·       The Control Freak — meddles manipulatively, dictatorial, and holds others to impossible standards. They drain others energy and seek to undermine the self-worth of others.

·       The Gaslighter — comes from a 1944 film “Gaslight,”  highlighting a manipulative spouse. A Gaslighter schemes to make the innocent party feel they are psychologically impaired.

·       The Angry Venter — treats others as verbal punching bags.

·       The Know-It-All — is right about everything, always in competition with others, and needs to win always. They seek to manipulate, mistreat and dominate.

·       The Intimidator — seeks control by issuing threats, sometimes with a bark and no bite, but can also back threats with actions.  They breed resentment, bitterness and anger.

·       The Egotist — their motto is “It’s all about me!” They crave, demand, and hog the spotlight, dominate conversations, and disregard the needs of others.

·       The Drama Queen or Crisis King — Every issue, even normal experiences is catastrophic. They need to be the center of the storm, whip up problems, and orchestrate emotional conflicts.

·       The Put-Down Artist — uses words, tone of voice and actions to degrade the value of others. They are often callous and insulting, using biting remarks, or sarcasm to diminish others.

·       The Moral Authority — pontificates to coerce compliance.

·       The Emotional Roller Coaster — takes others on mood swings to control.

·       The Pessimist — spreads discontent, and negativity like a contagious virus.

·       The Guilter — never able to apologize, but always blaming others for everything.

·       The Addict — dysfunctional due to addictions (substance abuse, gambling, alcoholism, etc.) and will say and do anything to cover their needs. This includes distorting truth and inventing false realities. [1]

A toxic personality does not definitively lead to acts of violence. Yet, understanding toxic personalities, especially when warning signs or imminent warning signs are identified, is pertinent. This understanding is beneficial to preventing violence and upholding civility in society.

Warning Signs, Timely Response

Understanding warning signs was memorialized in the government booklet Early Warning, Timely Response: A Guide to Safe Schools published by the U.S. Department of Education (USDOE). [2]

This booklet is a treasure trove for understanding and preventing school violence, yet its insights are still not appreciated.

The booklet punctuates that it is not always possible to predict violent behavior. However, the community can recognize early warning signs and provide intervention.

An abundance of caution is always the necessary approach to violence prevention. One should assume that warning signs, especially when numerous, indicate a need for a threat assessment.

All the USDOE warning signs are not equally significant. They are not listed by significance, and deserve contextual understanding. The USDOE early warning signs are as follows:

·       Social withdrawal

·       Excessive feelings of isolation and being alone

·       Excessive feelings of rejection

·       Being a victim of violence

·       Feelings of being picked on and persecuted

·       Low school interest/poor academic performance

·       Uncontrolled anger

·       Patterns of impulsive and chronic hitting, intimidating and bullying

·       Expression of violence in writings

·       History of discipline problems

·       Past history of violent aggressive behavior

·       Drug and alcohol use

·       Affiliation with gangs

·       Intolerance for differences and prejudicial attitudes

·       Inappropriate access to, possession of and use of firearms

·       Serious threats of violence

Imminent Warning Signs

The Early Warning Timely Response booklet gives additional insights on each of these warning signs.

 It also highlights imminent warning signs as follows:

“Imminent warning signs indicate a student is very close to behaving in a way that is potentially dangerous to self/or to others.  Imminent warning signs require an immediate response.

“Imminent warning signs are usually presented as a sequence of overt, serious, hostile behaviors or threats directed at peers, staff or other individuals. Usually, imminent warning signs are evident to more than one staff member — as well as to the child’s family.”

Imminent warning signs according to the guide, may include;

·       Serious physical fighting with peers or family members.

·       Severe destruction of property.

·       Severe rage for seemingly minor reasons.

·       Detailed threats of lethal violence

·       Possession and/or use of firearms and other weapons.

·       Other self-injurious behaviors or threats of suicide.

When warning signs indicate a danger is imminent, safety must be first and foremost. The document stresses that “action must be taken immediately.” Immediate intervention by school authorities and law enforcement officers is needed when an individual:

·       “Has presented a detailed plan (time, place, method) to harm or kill others — particularly if the child has a history of aggression, or has attempted to carry out threat in the past.

·       Is carrying a weapon, particularly a firearm, and has threatened to use it.”

 

Countermeasures

Now that we have noted toxic personalities, warning signs, and imminent warning, let us focus on countermeasures. 

Here are six basic countermeasures to prevent school violence that deserve implementation:

1.      Security Vulnerability Assessment: The security vulnerability assessment (SVA) identifies and evaluates the vulnerabilities and strengths of schools. The primary concern of the SVA is the protection of lives. It should be conducted by a reputable board-certified protection professional. Each school has its own personality. Therefore, each SVA must be customized to properly diagnosis vulnerabilities and provide corrective measures.

2.      School resource officers (SRO’s) and School Safety Agents:  Schools deserve qualified, certified, and dedicated professionals. These individuals need a charisma that builds respect and trust with the entire school community.

3.       Preventive System of Education: In this system, educators are vigilant and exemplify encouragement through respect, courtesy, and reasonableness.  The preventive system builds trust with students, staff, and community.  It responds to concerns with measured interventions, not rigid repressiveness.

4.       Professional Development Programs: These programs are important for all staff members. Training must include coaches, parents, cafeteria personnel, SRO’s, security personnel, board of education members, mental health professionals, school crossing guards, bus drivers, parents, and students.

5.       Character Development Initiatives: Schools must provide the leadership to instill a culture of character. Developing students of character, built on pillars of honesty, civility, and patriotism must be paramount throughout America’s schools.

6.       Threat Assessment Teams: The threat assessment team requires a collaborative approach by numerous disciplines — including security, mental health, faculty, administration, and law enforcement.  Warning signs of violence demands immediate intervention.

Final Reflections

American schools must be fully dedicated to security principles, character education, and academic excellence.

When the community is vigilant with security concerns, inspires character through example, and encourages academic excellence, we will be on the path to transforming American schools.

About the Author

Vincent J. Bove is a national speaker, author, and confidant on issues critical to America with over 325 published works. 

His most recent of four books are Reawakening America © and Listen to Their Cries.© 

Bove is recipient of the FBI Director’s Community Leadership Award, former confidant of players from two world champion New York Yankee teams, and served as spokesperson for a coalition of Virginia Tech tragedy victim’s families.

Bove is an author for the National Association of Chiefs of Police, with over 60 published works and an unprecedented 18 cover stories for their magazine. 

He also served the Bergen County Police Chiefs Association for 20 consecutive years as liaison and chairperson on policing leadership, violence prevention, and public safety issues.

For 20 years, Vincent served as a Board Certified Protection Professional (CPP), Board Certified Crime Prevention Specialist, Certified Police Training Commission Instructor, Crime Prevention Practitioner, and USDOJ Certified Community Anti-Terrorism Instructor Trainer.

Bove is a licensed State of New Jersey / Division of State Police SORA Instructor, and founder of Reawakening America LLC.

Contact: vincent@vincentbove.com

PHOTOS:

1. Copy of article as published in the ASIS International NYC Chapter Security Director Magazine, Nov. 13, 2024 and available on line.  The magazine will be distributed hard copy to the association attendees at their annual trade show in November.

2. Vincent J. Bove conducting training for Port Authority Police Department sergeant’s prior to promotions to lieutenant, Oct. 20, 2015. (Courtesy PAPD)

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[1] How to Deal with Toxic People, Gregory L. Jantz, PhD with Keith Wall, Aspire Press, © 2021. Pgs. 12 — 38.

[2] https://www.schoolsafety.gov/resource/early-warning-timely-response-guide-safe-schools

America’s Armed Forces: A Veterans Day Tribute

Reawakening America LLC in Partnership with the 

National Association of Chiefs of Police

By Vincent J. Bove

Spotlight In Memoriam: MURRAY MANKOWITZ, WW II Veteran 
Member of the Greatest Generation 

As we prepare to honor Veteran’s Day on Monday, November 11, a special tribute is in honor of America’s armed forces.

America must eternally honor all who protect us through military  service.

These patriots are the ethical protectors of the security and freedom of America, and for people of good will throughout the world.

May we be forever grateful for our military, and may their sacrifices serve the path of peace.

At the conclusion of this article, continuing with a spotlight remembrance, we will take time to express our gratitude for each branch of our armed forces.  We will also take time to focus on some special armed forces topics.

Spotlight Remembrance: Murray Mankowitz, WW II Veteran, Member of the Greatest Generation

On Wednesday, November 16, 2022, I was privileged to share some poignant remarks at the funeral of Morris (Murray) Nathan Mankowitz.

This honor was requested by his beloved nephew and my friend Gary Mankowitz, retired from the

Livingston Police Department.  Gary has been an inspiration for his steadfast kindness and devotion to his Uncle Murray, especially during his uncle’s illness.

Here are some details on the life of service, dedication, and commitment to community of Murray Mankowitz, provided through the kindness of his nephew Gary.  Like his uncle, Gary is a paragon of public service, as he served his police department for 31 years before retirement.

His Uncle Murray’s noble life reminds us of the profound contribution each can make to community and country.

·         Livingston Township Police Department (Essex County, NJ) – Auxiliary armed officer for 30 years, earning the rank of lieutenant.

·         Livingston school crossing guard, and full time court officer. 

Murray Mankowitz

SEPTEMBER 12, 1925 – NOVEMBER 12, 2022

The funeral service, held in Livingston, New Jersey was profoundly dignified.

Services included inspirational remarks from the family rabbi, friends, and loved ones.  The cantors, who selected psalms, and sang in Hebrew, including this one, were particularly inspirational:

PSALM 23

“The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not want; he makes me lie down in green pastures.

“He leads me beside still waters; he restores my soul.

“He leads me in paths of righteousness for his name’s sake.

“Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I fear no evil; for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff, they comfort me. Psalm 23: 1-4

Honoring Murray Mankowitz

Along with the honor of being a pallbearer, it was my responsibility to share remarks on Murray’s service in the armed forces.

My remarks were made possible through the kindness of his nephew Gary, who shared Murray’s military documents with me.

It is my hope, that a moment of reflection on Murray’s service to America reminds us to be forever grateful to the world’s greatest generation.  They truly saved civilization from tyranny and are owed our eternal gratitude.

My military tribute eulogy was a follows:

“In 1941, Morris (Murray) Nathan Mankowitz was 16-years-old, and lived in Newark, New Jersey.

“Murray wrote a letter to President Roosevelt asking if he could join the US Navy during World War II.

“He actually received a letter back from President Roosevelt saying he could join at 17 years old with a parent’s signature.

“As soon as Murray turned 17, he told his younger brother Fred not to say anything to his father when he got home from work.  Murray was going to take his bicycle from Newark, NJ to Bradley Beach, NJ where their mother was visiting her sister, their Aunt Josephine. 

“There wasn't a Garden State Parkway back then. Murray’s mother Diana Mankowitz signed the permission papers, and he joined the United States Navy.

“He had many positions in the Navy, but was most proud of being in a sub-chaser crew.

“Murray received a shrapnel injury to his arm but he was not concerned about it.  He finished his 4 years active wartime duties and in 1946 was honorably discharged.

“Murray then completed 12 more years in the United States Navy Reserve, and was honorably discharged from the reserves in 1956.

“Murray was a member of the Livingston Veterans of Foreign Wars, Jewish War Veterans, and the American Legion. Murray was one of few left of the ‘Greatest Generation’.

“Ladies and gentleman, today we honor Murray Mankowitz, a great man and dedicated American.  He will be forever remembered as a man who loved his family, friends, and community – and who was profoundly devoted to God and country.”

Murray Mankowitz: Armed Forces Ribbons Earned

My remarks were concluded by sharing the following on Murray’s earned military ribbons:

·         American Campaign Ribbon

·         WW ll Victory Ribbon

·         WW ll Good Conduct Ribbon

·         American Defense Ribbon

·         Honorable Service Commission Ribbon

·         Navy Commission Ribbon

Our tribute continues with some excerpts from my collection of published articles honoring our armed forces, beginning with Murray’s beloved U.S. Navy. 

The navy is also important to me personally, as noted in my own reflection in the following:

US Navy: Honor, Leadership, Protecting America

“As a boy, the US Navy had a special influence on me. This took place through the stories of my father, a sailor who served on the USS Charles J. Badger (DD-657) from 1953-1954.

 “His experience as a U.S. Sailor on this Navy destroyer influenced him with a profound spirit of patriotism. It stayed with him throughout his life and translated into a lifetime of respect for America’s flag and for all who serve in our military.

 “May all who serve in our Navy, be inspirited by their motto, “Non sibi sed patriae.”

 “May these words, translated as “Not for self but for country,” inspire our appreciation for all who serve, and the reawakening of our nation.”

With Honor and Leadership the US Army Protects America

“America is deservingly proclaimed as ‘the land of the free and home of the brave.’

 “This proclamation is possible only because of all who honorably serve the nation in the U.S. Army and all our armed forces.

 “Our nation must eternally honor their sacrifices, dedication, and valor.

 “These patriots, as exemplified through the mission of the U.S. Army, are the ethical protectors of America’s freedom.

 “As the gathering storm intensifies with discord among nations, may all people of good will pray and work for peace.

 “Yet, let us also pray for members of the U.S. Army, and all who serve the nation. These patriots stand ready to exercise America’s sacrosanct right to protect ourselves and all people of moral decency.”

 U.S. Air Force: Honor, Leadership, Protecting America

“During my keynote, I highlighted to attendees that the United States Air Force (USAF) is pivotal to the honor, leadership, and protection of America.

 “The concept of mentorship was presented, which is paramount to their service, and complemented by stressing the importance of being ethical protectors.

 “The ethical protector philosophy is encouraged in my initiatives not only for the military, but for law enforcement and all in society who are dedicated to America’s ethical renaissance.

 “We all have a part to play, no matter what role we have in life. All of us have the capacity to serve others as ethical protectors.

 “America is at a crossroads, as witnessed through the continual headlines of violence and character deficiencies.

 “As we pause to appreciate the USAF, may each of us renew our dedication to safeguarding our homeland as ethical protectors.”

With Honor and Leadership the U.S. Marine Corps Protects America

“As detailed on the official U.S. Marine Corps website, ‘The Marine Corps, within the Department of the Navy, is organized as a general purpose force in readiness to support national needs.’

“Deploying for combat as combined-arms Marine air-ground task forces (MAGTFs), the Marine Corps provides the National Command Authorities (NCA) with a responsive force that can conduct operations across the spectrum of conflict. Recent events continue to highlight the Navy-Marine Corps team’s key national security role. Sea-based, combat ready, forward deployed naval forces have been involved in more than 28 major military operations since 1995.

“The heart of the mission of the U.S. Marine Corps is ‘As America's expeditionary force in readiness since 1775, the Marines are forward deployed to win our nation’s battles swiftly and aggressively in times of crisis. We fight on land, sea and air, as well as provide forces and detachments to naval ships and ground operations.’

With Honor and Leadership the US Coast Guard Protects America

“Under the Homeland Security Act of 2002, the Coast Guard, the only military branch within the Department of Homeland Security, oversees missions as ‘homeland security’ or ‘non-homeland security’ missions.

 “The homeland security missions are safeguarding ports and waterways, coastal security, drug interdiction, migrant interdiction, defense readiness, and other law-enforcement initiatives.

 “The non-homeland missions are marine safety, search and rescue, aids to navigation, living marine resources, marine environmental protection, and ice operations.

 “The Coast Guard defends more than 100,000 miles of U.S. coastline and inland waterways.

 “Aside from its role as one of the five Armed Services of the United States, the Coast Guard is a critical first responder and humanitarian service. In this capacity, aid is provided to people in distress or impacted by natural or man-made disasters either at sea or ashore. The valiant rescue operations have been witnessed due to the hurricanes that hit America.”

America’s Veterans Deserve Honor, Homes, Healthcare 

“A travesty has infected our great land, for as we now walk American cities, the dignity of our flag is contradicted by the tragedy of dishonored homeless veterans, many with mental health needs. These patriots are further victimized by society’s indignation, contempt, and abandonment…

“…America must respond to an inner moral call and rise by igniting an ethical renaissance.

“The principles of character, compassion, and altruism must be the heartbeat of America.

“When America’s heartbeat pulsates with putting the golden rule into action: ‘Do unto others as you would have them do unto you’, the reawakening of the nation will begin its resuscitation.

“America, let us honor verses from America the Beautiful, ‘O beautiful for heroes proved in liberating strife, who more than self their country loved, and mercy more than life.’

American Veteran Suicide Crisis Demands Ethical Leadership 

“The American flag is the sacred symbol of our nation and deserves unwavering respect.

“As our flag flies throughout our land – at schools, workplaces, parades, homes, landmarks, parks, and streets, it is a sacrosanct reminder of armed forces sacrifices.

“As we honor our flag, we must remember all our veterans, especially those who suffer from the trails ignited by challenges during their service. We must have empathy that assists them in their time of need.

“America’s veterans are experiencing a suicide crisis. We must respond with character, compassion, and commitment to alleviate their suffering.

“A sense of immediate urgency to the veteran suicide crisis is the clarion call to America.”

West Point Cadets: Honor, Leadership, America 

“During my presentation titled West Point Cadets: Honor, Leadership, America, I encouraged the cadets to develop deep rooted values of character, ethics, and leadership.

“This presentation honestly assessed critical issues facing America today and emphasized that ethical principles inspired by our Constitution, Bill of Rights, and the West Point legacy are principles needed to transform the nation.

“My agenda used a metaphor of a catastrophic head on collision with two trains traveling at high speed. I used this image with accompanying slides to illuminate America’s crisis of character and culture of violence in America society.

“America’s shattered communities, demonstrated through deteriorated families, substance abuse, and the gang culture, resulting in violence, prison, death, were also depicted with my presentation.

“After honestly addressing these issues, solutions were presented that included cultivating altruism, visionary leadership principles, a call to action, and the importance of always honoring America’s military sacrifices.”

The Vietnam Memorial Moving Wall Visits New Jersey 

“Americans, and all privileged to call America home must be forever grateful for the sacrifices of our armed forces.  They have been, and are, the defenders of freedom, democracy, and our way of life.

“On Sunday, July 10, 2022, my wife Lily and I were able to express our gratitude for their sacrifices. 

“This gratitude, particularly for all whom made the ultimate sacrifice during the Vietnam War, took place with our visit to a solemn event at The Moving Wall.” 

The trident is a sacred symbol proudly worn by Navy SEALS, and solemnly embedded into the wooden coffins of fallen SEALS as an expression of respect, brotherhood, and honor for those who deserve to never be forgotten.

Navy SEALS: Honor, Leadership, Protecting America   

The Ethos of the U.S. Navy SEAL inspires with these words:

“My Trident is a symbol of honor and heritage. Bestowed upon me by the heroes that have gone before, it embodies the trust of those I have sworn to protect.

“By wearing the Trident I accept the responsibility of my chosen profession and way of life. It is a privilege that I must earn every day.

“My loyalty to Country and Team is beyond reproach. I humbly serve as a guardian to my fellow Americans always ready to defend those who are unable to defend themselves. I do not advertise the nature of my work, nor seek recognition for my actions.

“I voluntarily accept the inherent hazards of my profession, placing the welfare and security of others before my own. I serve with honor on and off the battlefield.

“The ability to control my emotions and my actions, regardless of circumstance, sets me apart from other men. Uncompromising integrity is my standard. My character and honor are steadfast. My word is my bond.”

Armed Forces Day: Honor, Leadership, Protecting America 

“As detailed on the U.S. Department of Defense Armed Forces Day website, Armed Forces Day was created on August 31, 1949.

“The purpose of this new day was to integrate previous separate Army, Navy, and Air Force Days and to combine these with honoring all who serve, including the Marines and Coast Guard.

“This single day commemoration reflects the unity of all serving in our armed forces under the Department of Defense.”

D-Day: Eternally Honoring America's Courage

“America must reclaim its communities from the appalling culture of violence.

 “Headlines of horrific acts of violence continue in schools, campuses, movie theaters, malls, communities, and homes.

 “Violence brings heartbreak nationwide. Even sacred places of worship, once thought to be sanctuaries of peace, are experiencing incidents becoming all too common.

 “America’s character led to the reclaiming of the tranquility for countless millions on distant shores through the heroic events that began on D-Day.

 “Our nation can and must also bring security to communities throughout our homeland by rehabilitating the character exemplified on D-Day and, in doing so, reawaken the nation.”

Gold Star Families: Honoring Those Who Make the Ultimate Sacrifice 

 “Today, whenever a father, mother, sister, brother, son, or daughter, or any loved one dies serving our country, they are recognized as a Gold Star Family member.

 “This is a solemn tribute of the highest order recognizing those who have offered the ultimate sacrifice with their families. These sacrifices are the most profound expression of American patriotism.

 “The sacrifice of all who lost heroes, deserves America’s most heartfelt respect, dignity, and gratitude. All who have died serving our nation, as well as their grieving families, must always be honored without compromise.”

The Tomb of the Unknown Soldier: Leadership, Honor, America 

 The Sentinel's (Tomb Guards) Creed can stir vast emotions when spoken by a Sentinel.  In my opinion, it can also remind all Americans of the dedication, dignity, and duty each of us is responsible for in our own particular circumstances of life:

 

“My dedication to this sacred duty is total and whole-hearted.

“In the responsibility bestowed on me never will I falter.

“And with dignity and perseverance my standard will remain perfection.

“Through the year of diligence and praise and the discomfort of the elements I will walk my tour in humble service to the best of my ability.

“It is he who commands the respect I protect, his bravery that made us proud.

“Surrounded by well-meaning crowds by day, alone in the thoughtful peace of night, this soldier will in honored glory rest under my eternal vigilance.”

Memorial Day: Respect, Reverence, Reawakening

“America must pause to honor all who died while serving in the United States Armed Forces.

Our nation must be reawakened by igniting a fire of respect, reverence, and remembrance in our souls.

“Honoring all who have offered the ultimate sacrifice for our freedom is not only a privilege, but a sacred responsibility.

“There must be a renewal of respect in the heart of America.

“America must eternally heed the words of President Franklin Delano Roosevelt:

“’Those who have long enjoyed such privileges as we enjoy forget in time that men have died to win them.’”

In Memoriam: Army Captain Jennifer M. Moreno 

“Captain Moreno, 25, of San Diego, California, was assigned to Madigan Army Medical Center, Joint Base Lewis – McCord, Washington.  She died in Zhari District, Afghanistan of injuries sustained while enemy forces attacked her unit with an improvised explosion device.

“Also killed in the incident were Sgt. Patrick Hawkins, Sgt. Joseph Peters, and Pfc. Cody Patterson.

“As documented by The Tacoma Tribune on the Military Times website, the details of Capt. Moreno’s heroism are as follows:

‘In her last moments of life, Army nurse Capt. Jennifer Moreno heard two orders.

‘One was a call to help a wounded soldier struck by a blast in a booby-trapped killing field at an Afghanistan bomb-making compound.

‘The other was a command to stay put lest she strike another mine in the bomb belt.

‘The nurse from Madigan Army Medical Center chose to help the wounded soldier, and gave her life trying.

‘In the words of her commander, Moreno ran "into hell" to rescue a comrade on the night she was killed. Newly released narratives of the Oct. 5 battle reveal the kind of hell Moreno, and dozens of Army special operators found while trying to disrupt a plot to kill civilians in the city of Kandahar.

‘A total of 12 bombs exploded that night — a chain reaction that took the lives of four U.S. soldiers and wounded at least 25.

‘The fifth bomb killed Moreno, 25, of San Diego who volunteered for a dangerous assignment supporting special operators in combat.

‘The 11th bomb wounded three soldiers trying to recover her body.

‘Moreno is Madigan's only fatal casualty from the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan, even though the hospital south of Tacoma has continuously deployed soldiers to medical facilities in combat zones.

‘Moreno "sacrificed her life so others could live," her Bronze Star commendation reads.’”

A Memorial Day Prayer

“WE PRAY THAT ALL WHO WEAR THE UNITED STATES ARMED FORCES UNIFORM UNDERSTAND THE IMMEASURABLE DIGNITY OF A CAUSE GREATER THAN THEMSELVES. AS THEY SERVE FREEDOM AND PUT THEIR LIVES ON THE LINE, PROTECT THEM.

“AS WE HONOR ALL WHO CONSECRATED AMERICA AND THE IDEALS THAT WE STAND FOR WITH THEIR BLOOD, WE REDEDICATE OURSELVES TO THE UNENDING WORK OF BRINGING OUR COUNTRY EVER CLOSER TO THAT MORE PERFECT UNION FOR WHICH THEY DIED. 

“TODAY AND EVERY DAY, WE IMPLORE YOU TO PROTECT OUR TROOPS, TO SHINE LIGHT PERPETUAL UPON THE FALLEN, AND TO BRING YOUR COMFORT TO THEIR LOVED ONES. 

“BESTOW YOUR GRACE TO AMERICA’S GOLD STAR FAMILIES AND TO ALL WHO HAVE LOST A LOVED ONE. INSPIRE US TO HONOR THE MEMORIES OF THE FALLEN AND TO SUPPORT THE FAMILIES, CAREGIVERS, AND SURVIVORS THEY LEFT BEHIND.”

Note Well: The independently prepared White House Memorial Day Proclamation, by a separate author, was modified into prayer by Vincent Bove

Veterans Day: Honoring Our Heroes

“The legacy of America urges us to appreciate all veterans who have honored our nation through their service. When we are grateful for the heroism, patriotism, and sacrifices of our veterans we are on the course to reawakening the nation.”

Fallen Green Berets Deserve America’s Honor

 “Green Berets are defined as the ‘elite, multi-purpose force for high priority operational targets of strategic importance. Their linage dates back to more than 200 years of unconventional warfare history, with notable predecessors including the Revolutionary War Swamp Fox Francis Marion, the WWII OSS Jedbourg Teams, and Detachment 101 in Burma, as well as the Alamo Scouts.

“’Since their establishment in 1952, they have distinguished themselves in Vietnam (17 Medals of Honor), El Salvador, Panama, Desert Shield/Storm, Haiti, Somalia, Bosnia, and Kosovo.

“’Most recently, Green Berets have played a critical role in destroying Taliban/al-Qaeda in Afghanistan, rooting out insurgents in Iraq, training foreign troops to fight terrorists or drug warlords, and crossing the globe to liberate the oppressed.’”

Navajo Code Talkers: An American Treasure

“America is deservingly proclaimed as “the land of the free and home of the brave.” This proclamation is possible only because of patriots such as the Navajo Code Talkers who honorably served in the U.S. Marine Corps and all our armed forces.

“Our nation must eternally honor their sacrifices, patriotism, and valor.

“May America be eternally grateful for these patriot’s. They fulfilled America’s sacrosanct right to protect ourselves and all people of moral decency. They deserve our admiration, respect, and a Navajo Code Talkers Museum, to forever remember their service.”

Sacred Honor: Police Officer, Soldier, Patriot

“On Friday July 13, 2007, I was privileged to attend the full military interment ceremony at Arlington
National Cemetery of Army 1st Lt. Mark H. Dooley, 27, who was killed in Iraq on September 19, 2005. Lt. Mark Dooley was from Wallkill, New York and was assigned to the 3d Battalion, 172nd Infantry Regiment (Mountain), 42nd Infantry Division, Vermont Army National Guard, Jericho, Vermont. Mark would have celebrated his 29th birthday on Sunday, July 15, 2007, a day after his remains were honored at Arlington.

“I was invited to this solemn event by his parents, Marion and Peter Dooley. I met Marion Dooley at a school violence prevention presentation for the Wallkill School District in New York on November 22, 2006. Because I honor American Military personnel at each of my presentations, Marion shared with me the story of her military sons.

“The ceremony was profoundly inspirational thanks to the devotion and presence of his parents, his brother Charlie – who also serves in the U.S. Army – and the many family members, friends, educators and military personnel (including the honor guard) who came to honor Mark Dooley and remember him as a man of commitment, courage and patriotism. 

"Although there are many vignettes that can be used to capture the event, I will never forget the expressive faces of those who honored Mark and the "clip-clop" of horse hooves in soothing cadence as they transported the caisson that carried Mark's remains. It was the perfect orchestration of nature and emotions during the one mile procession to Marks final resting place, as though even the horses understood, honored and sympathized with the gravity of the interment.”

In Remembrance: Honoring American Military Sacrifices 

“Surrounded by the significance of Ellis Island, the Statue of Liberty and the New York skyline, is the
Liberation Monument in Liberty View Park, Jersey City, New Jersey.

Designed by sculptor Nathan Rapaport, this inspirational statue depicts a World War II American soldier carrying a survivor from a concentration camp. This image moves the soul to reflect on the values of compassion, character, and courage.

“Today, as in generations past, courageous Americans are making great sacrifices to serve our country and preserve our liberty in our armed forces.

‘It is important for those who benefit from the valor of their service to always appreciate their dedication. Their sacrifices are shared by their loved ones, especially their children. It is critical to be mindful of their challenges and support them and their families in every way possible.

“The legacy of America urges a rebirth of patriotism that will transform us once again into a nation destined to be a hope for the world through its commitment to moral leadership. Our renewal begins with honoring all who serve us.”

Life Lessons from the United States Military 

·         “The Tomb of the Unknowns has been guarded since July 2, 1937, for 24 hours per day, 365 days a year, in any weather by Tomb Sentinels.

·         “Representing teamwork, there are three reliefs, one relief commander, and about six sentinels. Reliefs are organized by height for uniformity and rotate every hour during winter and every half-hour in summer.

·         “An impeccably uniformed relief commander appears on the plaza announcing the Changing of the Guard. He salutes the Tomb, and then faces the spectators requesting them to stand in silence during the ceremony.

·         “The Tomb Guard marches 21 steps, faces east for 21 seconds, turns and faces north for 21 seconds, then takes 21 steps down the mat and repeats the process. Twenty-one symbolizes the highest military honor, the 21-gun
salute.”

United States Military Academy: Leadership Lessons for America 

“The ethical deficiencies in the corporate sector smack of decayed underpinnings of dysfunction and the lack of a moral compass. Enron, once an admired company, became the icon of corporate greed.   Executives enriched themselves at the expense of thousands who lost their jobs and their retirement savings.

“Legions of corrupt and dishonest officials from other companies, including WorldCom, represented this deviance. Professional sports teams shared in this pandemic of scandal. Each of us can cite personal examples of how greed brought pain to ourselves, or others.

“The leadership principles from the United States Military Academy stand as counter cultural wisdom to this crisis. These ideals demand review, reflection and resolve for all Americans. America must appreciate West Point’s motto, ‘duty, honor, country.’

“Let us make sure this motto serves as a starting point for our ethical renaissance.”

About the Author

Vincent J. Bove is a national speaker, author, and confidant on issues critical to America with over 325 published works. 

His most recent of four books are Reawakening America © and Listen to Their Cries.© 

Bove is recipient of the FBI Director’s Community Leadership Award, former confidant of players from two world champion New York Yankee teams, and served as spokesperson for a coalition of Virginia Tech tragedy victim’s families.

Bove is an author for the National Association of Chiefs of Police, with over 60 published works and an unprecedented 18 cover stories for their magazine. 

He also served the Bergen County Police Chiefs Association for 20 consecutive years as liaison and chairperson on policing leadership, violence prevention, and public safety issues.

For 20 years, Vincent served as a Board Certified Protection Professional (CPP), Board Certified Crime Prevention Specialist, Certified Police Training Commission Instructor, Crime Prevention Practitioner, and USDOJ Certified Community Anti-Terrorism Instructor Trainer.

Bove is a licensed State of New Jersey / Division of State Police SORA Instructor, and founder of Reawakening America LLC.

Contact: vincent@vincentbove.com

Note Well: This article was published in The Chief of Police by the National Association of Chiefs of Police, Dec. 29, 2022.

Photos

1.     A SEAL delivery vehicle team (SDV) performs a fast-roping exercise from a MH-60S Seahawk helicopter to the topside of Los Angeles-class fast attack submarine USS Toledo (SSN 769).

SDV teams use "wet" submersible vehicles to conduct 100 percent long-range submerged missions, or  to secretly deliver SEALs and other agents onto enemy territory from a submarine, or other vessel at sea, Jan. 17, 2005. (Credit:  U.S. Navy, Journalist 3rd Class Davis J. Anderson)

2.     Murray Mankowitz, U.S. Navy. (Photo Courtesy Gary Mankowitz)

3.     Murray Mankowitz with U.S. Navy class, 1942.  Mankowitz is 3rd row from the top, 11th sailor to the right. (Courtesy Gary Mankowitz)

 4. Internment, 1st Lt. Mark H. Dooley, Arlington National Cemetery, July 13, 2007. Seated in front row are (L–R) Peter Dooley and Marion Dooley (Mark’s parents) and Peter Dooley Jr., Mark’s brother. (Reawakening America LLC by Vincent J. Bove)

5.   United States Marine Corps, Times Square, NYC, Memorial Weekend 2015. (Reawakening America LLC, Vincent J. Bove)

6.  United States Coast Guard Honor Guard, Times Square, NYC, Memorial Day, 2011. (Reawakening America LLC, Vincent J. Bove)

7.  U.S. Army Major Ryan Boeka (l) and U.S. Army Major Aaron Miller (r) lead West Point Cadets through Empty Sky, the New Jersey 9/11 Memorial, Liberty State Park, Jersey City, April 14, 2016. (Reawakening America LLC, Vincent J. Bove)

8.  The Vietnam Memorial Moving Wall, collage, July 10, 2022. (Reawakening America LLC / Vincent J. Bove)

9.  United States Navy SEALS trident. (Courtesy USN SEALS)

10. Tomb of the Unknown Soldier, Arlington National Cemetery, Changing of the Guard, May 13, 2007. (Reawakening America LLC, Vincent J. Bove)

11. A plaque in honor of Jennifer Moreno, who died in the Afghanistan war. (Photo Credit: Amos Gregory)

12. 1^st Lt. Mark H. Dooley procession to final resting place, Arlington National Cemetery, July 13, 2007. (Reawakening America LLC, Vincent J. Bove)

13.  Liberation Monument, Jersey City, NJ, Liberty View Park. (Reawakening America LLC, Vincent J. Bove)

14. USN sailors with Vincent J. Bove, Memorial Weekend, Manhattan, NYC, 2015. (Reawakening America LLC)

15. As published in The Chief of Police, by the National Association of Chiefs of Police, December 29, 2022.