Memorial Day: Respect, Reverence, Reawakening

America must pause to honor all who died while serving in the United States Armed Forces.

Our nation must be reawakened by igniting a fire of respect, reverence, and remembrance in our souls.

Honoring all who have offered the ultimate sacrifice for our freedom is not only a privilege, but a sacred responsibility.

There must be a renewal of respect in the heart of America.

America must eternally heed the words of President Franklin Delano Roosevelt:

“Those who have long enjoyed such privileges as we enjoy forget in time that men have died to win them.”

America’s Flag: Symbol of Respect

As we honor Memorial Day, respect for America’s flag must be integral.

Our flag is the symbol of America, deserving of reverence, respect, and dignity.

In traditional observance of Memorial Day, the flag is raised briskly to the top of the mast. Then, it is reverently lowered to half-staff where it remains till noon. For the remainder of Memorial Day, it is raised to full-staff.

The half-staff flag solemnly honors well over one million men and women who have died to preserve our freedom.

At noon, their memory is honored with a full-staff flag, symbolizing that their sacrifices are not in vain.

The Flags of Arlington National Cemetery

At Arlington National Cemetery, one of America’s national cemeteries and the hallowed ground for more than 14,000 veterans, our flag holds a special place of honor.

On the Thursday before Memorial Day, over 1,200 soldiers of the 3rd U.S. Infantry place an American flag at each of over 260,000 gravestones at Arlington.

Afterwards, these soldiers patrol the cemetery, 24 hours per day, throughout the weekend, to insure that the flags remain standing.

America’s flag is inseparable from honor for all who have offered the ultimate sacrifice.

Perhaps these words of an unknown author best articulate honoring our fallen and our flag:

“Our flag does not fly because the wind moves it. It flies with the last breath of each soldier who died protecting it.”

There are countless stories of the fallen, of which these two inspire respect.

U.S. Marine 2nd Lt. August Sacker Jr.

During World War II over 400,000 Americans made the ultimate sacrifice to save civilization from tyranny.

One such American was U.S. Marine 2nd Lt. August Sacker Jr., who joined the Marines when he was 22 years old. After previously quitting high school, sacker went back to earn his diploma to meet Marine requirements.

Sacker was killed June 15, 1944, on the first day of the Battle of Saipan, one week after his 31st birthday. Six months prior, he was wounded in the Pacific theater and received the Purple Heart. 

After convalescence, Sacker requested deployment to the European theater but was sent back to the Pacific where he was killed.

I learned about Sacker after noticing his vintage World War II photograph in the living room of my neighbor Marie, his surviving sister who since then has also passed on. 

Marie inspired me by her devotion to her brother by visiting his grave on a monthly basis for over 40 years while she was healthy enough to do so.

Sacker is buried in Beverly National Cemetery, Beverly, N.J. His sister said, “Visiting the grave of my brother and remembering all who made the ultimate sacrifice reminds us of the enduring value of character that is America’s destiny.”

U.S. Army 1st Lt. Mark H. Dooley

On July 13, 2007, I was privileged to attend the full military interment ceremony at Arlington National Cemetery of Army 1st Lt. Mark H. Dooley, 27—killed in Iraq on Sept. 19, 2005. Lt. Dooley’s assignment was in the 2nd Battalion, 172nd Infantry Regiment (Mountain), 42nd Infantry Division, Vermont Army National Guard.

I was invited to this solemn event by his parents, Marion and Peter Dooley. I met Marion Dooley at a school violence prevention presentation for the Wallkill School District in New York on Nov. 22, 2006. 

Because I honor American military personnel at each of my presentations, Marion shared with me the story of her son.

Although there are many vignettes that can be used to capture the event, I will never forget the expressive faces of those who honored Mark and the “clip-clop” of horse hooves in soothing cadence as they transported the caisson that carried Mark’s remains. 

It was the perfect orchestration of nature and emotions during the one-mile procession to Mark’s final resting place—as though even the horses sympathized with the gravity of the interment.

Final Reflections

As America honors the fallen on this Memorial Day, may we reawaken reverence throughout our land.

Perhaps these words, from President John F. Kennedy will assist us with our observance:

“As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the highest appreciation is not to utter the words, but to live them.”

Related Coverage:

Memorial Day: Honor the Fallen, Widows, Orphans

Memorial Day: Honoring America’s Sacred Sacrifices

About the Author

Vincent J. Bove, CPP, is a national speaker and author on issues critical to America with over 300 published works.  Bove is recipient of the FBI Director's Community Leadership Award and former confident of the New York Yankees.  He is co-founder of Global Security Resolutions and served as spokesperson for a coalition of Virginia Tech tragedy families of victims. His most recent books are Reawakening America and Listen To Their Cries.

For more information see www.vincentbove.com or twitter@vincentjbove

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1. Changing of the Guard, Tomb of the Unknown Soldier, Arlington National Cemetery. (Vincent J. Bove)

2. American flags at the graves of U.S. soldiers buried at Arlington National Cemetery, in preparation for Memorial Day in Arlington, Va., on May 21, 2015. (Win McNamee/Getty Images)

3. U.S. Marine Lt. August Sacker, who was killed at the Battle of Saipan in World War II. (Vincent J. Bove Publishing)

4. Internment procession of Lt. Mark H. Dooley, Arlington National Cemetery, July 13, 2007. (Vincent J. Bove)

America’s Mass Shooter Crisis Demands Visionary Leadership

Unfortunately, the American flags continually flying half-staff to honor victims of mass shootings are a stark reminder of our culture of violence. It is a disturbing commentary on American life, when flags at half-staff seem to be the norm, rather than the exception.

America must never give up - we must ignite compassion in our hearts.

Each person who has perished in these senseless tragedies deserves America's remembrance, and we must resolve to end the scourge of violence.

Mass Casualty Culture: Changing the Paradigm

The Naval Postgraduate School Center for Homeland Defense and Security has addressed our mass casualty crisis in a sobering report.

The report titled How Violent Attacks are Changing the Demands of Mass Casualty Incidents: A Review of the Challenges Associated with Intentional Mass Casualty Incidents dramatically emphasizes the impact these tragedies have on communities.

FBI Active Shooter Definition / Reference Guide

Before we continue, it is important to have a working definition of active shooter.

The FBI Active Shooter Quick Reference Guide defines an active shooter as “an individual actively engaged in killing or attempting to kill people in a confined and populated area, typically through the use of firearms.”

The guide also highlights these points:

• Victims are selected at random
• Event is unpredictable and evolves quickly
• Knowing what to do can save lives

The guide also accentuates that when an active shooter is in your vicinity, you must be prepared both mentally and physically to deal with the situation with three options of run, hide, or fight.

It is imperative that those responsible for security continually initiate assessments, training, and counter-measures that cultivates these three options.

Security Countermeasures: Practical Tips

A robust security program must be comprehensive, proactive, and continually updated. Security must never be piecemeal, negligent, or have its importance minimized.

Securing workplaces, schools, campuses, houses of worship, communities must include the following:

Security Vulnerability Assessments: These must be conducted by board-certified, reputable, and experienced public safety professionals to identify and evaluate areas of risk.

Background Checks / Investigations: This is an essential due diligence countermeasure to prevent hiring individual’s not deserving employment or access. These checks must be made by qualified, licensed professionals who honor background checks laws. Background checks include criminal history, drug testing, motor vehicle driving records, credit checks, liens, judgments, sexual offender registry’s, employment and professional credential verifications.

Investigations may include surveillance, interviewing, and information sources by experienced and ethical professionals and are critical to protecting enterprises.

Training: Security demands ongoing training including personal safety, substance abuse awareness, domestic violence, diversity, conflict resolution, ethics, situational awareness, Internet security, workplace violence, fire prevention, crisis management, emergency preparedness, loss prevention, economic crime, crime prevention, drills, evacuations, terrorism, and warning signs.

Warning Signs: Warning Signs Are Critical to Violence Prevention.  We must recognize warning signs and provide the necessary intervention, training, health care, and security measures to prevent tragedies.

Physical Security: This includes countermeasures preventing unauthorized access - fencing, barrier arms, bollards, card access systems, ID cards, lighting, crime prevention through environmental design (CPTED), defense in depth, locks, alarms, fire extinguishers, Automated External Defibrillators (AEDs), mass communication systems, and metal detectors.

Personnel Security: Certified, well-trained, and licensed security officer programs with reputable contract or in-house professionals, either armed or unarmed personnel.

Procedural Security: Panning and evaluation with table-top exercises with partial and full scale drills based on numerous possible scenarios. Drills must involve law enforcement, first-responders, and private security professionals.  Essential to drills is the Active Shooter tips on the FBI website titled RUN, HIDE, FIGHT.

Informational / Cybersecurity: In this age of instantaneous global data at the fingertips of individuals, some with nefarious intentions, protecting information is vital.

Informational security must be effective and continually updated with ongoing training for personnel that empowers them with preventive techniques. This protects companies from breaches of information through the Internet, dumpster diving, and social engineering and can prevent unnecessary turmoil to companies and employees.

The Second Amendment: Enshrined Not Violated

One of my professional responsibilities over the last 30 years has included being a private security professional, coordinating armed security services.

America needs qualified armed security services, complementing law enforcement dedication, to safeguard society from individuals with nefarious criminal intentions.

Law-abiding citizens must also have their enshrined Second Amendment rights honored and never violated.

But there are individuals who should be unequivocally denied gun access as exemplified by the following tragedies:

Indianapolis FedEx – In Apr. 2021, this tragedy was the 45 mass shooting in America in just the past month. The 19-year-old who killed eight people at a FedEx facility purchased the two assault rifles used in the attack legally months after being investigated by the FBI due to his potential for violence, according to the Indianapolis Metropolitan Police Department.

Virginia Tech – Thirty-two people are shot dead, including 27 students and five faculty members, and another 17 were wounded the deadliest shooting by a single gunman in U.S. history. The gunman should have never been able to purchase a gun because a court order had previously declared him a danger to himself.

Lafayette Movie Theater – Two people were killed and nine wounded by a shooter who was denied a state-issued concealed weapons permit because he was accused of domestic violence and soliciting arson. The killer was also ordered by a judge to a psychiatric hospital but purchased a weapon legally despite fears from his family members that he was violent and mentally ill.

Emanuel A.M.E. Church – Nine people were killed by an individual who should have been denied purchasing a .45-caliber Glock pistol because he was charged with a misdemeanor and had admitted to possessing drugs. There was a breakdown in the federal gun background check system with former FBI Director James B. Comey  stating, “We wish we could turn back time. From this vantage point, everything seems obvious.”

Marysville High School, Washington – A 15-year-old used his father’s pistol to kill four students. The father should have been denied the gun purchase since he was the subject of a permanent domestic violence order that was never entered into the federal criminal background database.

Washington Navy Yard – Although he sought treatment for psychiatric issues and told police detailed psychotic experiences, the killer was able to buy a shotgun in Virginia used to kill 12 people. He had been denied an assault rifle purchase.

Newtown, Connecticut – 26 people, mostly children, were killed by a 20-year-old known to have psychiatric and anxiety issues as well as an obsessive-compulsive disorder. He had access to his mother’s guns, which he also used to kill her.

Aurora, Colorado Theater – Although seeing a psychiatrist, and even if for serious mental health issues, weapons were legally purchased by a man who used them to kill 12 people and wound 70 others.

Tucson, Arizona – Although arrested for drug paraphernalia and a year later failing Army enlistment drug testing, the killer legally brought a handgun to kill six people. He also shot U.S. Representative Gabrielle Giffords, leaving her with a severe brain injury.

Police-Community Unity: Culture of Trauma Antidote

Violence has been unleashed in America, as video allows us to witness horrific mass shooting tragedies and senseless killings of law enforcement.

The violence has no end in sight and every community, citizen, and police officer is a potential victim.

The antidote to this culture of trauma is police-community unity, indispensable to the security of our society.

Citizens and police must unite to turn the tide of this culture of trauma. America’s healing will only be possible with ethical leadership, unwavering collaboration, and moral courage. We must vigilantly work together for the common good.

When our communities and police are infused by an ethical compass, a unity of effort that builds bridges rather than walls, and a passion to do what is right for America, we will be on the path to reawakening the nation.

Enhancing Private Security Professionals

Private security must honestly evaluate its services in light of unprecedented violence unleashed throughout America, to prevent future tragedies.

This review must include background and criminal records checks for all security personnel-both contractual and in-house-ongoing training initiatives exceeding legal requirements, and certifications exceeding the status quo.

Also, the implementation of critical response private security personnel demands serious consideration to harden high-profile soft targets. This is the new reality of private security – certified and licensed armed security personnel.  These professionals are in highly visible tactical gear, serving as a deterrent and have the experience to respond to a crisis. These individuals should have either law enforcement or military experience, with specialty units such as SWAT, or emergency services.

There are ready, willing, and able professionals, ready to harden soft targets with critical response programs. America must be vigilant, and respond courageously to the war drums of violence.

We must be proactive and harden our soft targets.

Private security must be on the cutting edge, continually enhancing countermeasures, protocols, and initiatives.

Final Reflections: Preventing Violence, Essential Questions

During my violence prevention presentations, I often ask attendees the following questions:

• Is there a violence prevention policy in place and is it continually updated and followed?
• Do you have an active threat assessment team that includes a law enforcement liaison?
• 
  Have you conducted violence response training including table-top, partial scale, and full scale scenarios?
• Has your facility had a recent board certified security vulnerability assessment?
• Are your security personnel trained and certified according to state requirements with additional initiatives that exceed the status quo?
• What type of training have your implemented for those entrusted to your care on issues including domestic violence, warning signs, security protocols, school and workplace violence, emergency preparedness, sexual harassment, bullying, diversity and the active shooter?

 

About the Author

Vincent J. Bove, CPP, is a national speaker and author on issues critical to America with over 300 published works.  Bove is recipient of the FBI Director's Community Leadership Award and former confident of the New York Yankees.  He is co-founder of Global Security Resolutions and served as spokesperson for a coalition of Virginia Tech tragedy families of victims. His most recent books are Reawakening America and Listen To Their Cries.

For more information see www.vincentbove.com or twitter@vincentjbove

References:

Center for Homeland Defense & Security Report: https://www.hsaj.org/articles/16880

 FBI Active Shooter Event Quick Reference Guide: https://www.fbi.gov/file-repository/active-shooter-event-quick-reference-guide_2015.pdf/view

Published: The Chief of Police, Spring 2021 - Distributed hard copy to police chiefs and law enforcement executives nationwide.          

Photos:

1. Virginia Tech Remembrance, Apr. 17, 2007. (Creative Commons Attribution, Public Domain, Photo by Ben Townsend).
2. Boulder Police Officer Eric Talley, killed heroically responding to Mar. 22, 2021 mass shooting. (Courtesy Boulder PD)
3. NYPD officers, NYC synagogue. (Credit NYPD Counterterrorism)
4. Las Vegas Memorial. (Noah Wulf, Public Domain)
5. Joint Terrorism Task Force. (Courtesy FBI)
6. NYPD, Radio City Music Hall, NYC, Apr. 27, 2013.  (Vincent J. Bove)